Re: baby boom! for Donna
From: Mel (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Mon, 28 Jan 2002 04:14:41 -0600 (CST)
Hi Donna
I am soo sorry to hear this. It must be difficult to be happy period,
let alone for a father, who is so well unfeeling and mean. My db and i
have just come back from a weekend away with dear friends who have a
beautiful, happy and delightfull 7 month old boy. EWe are genuinely
delighted for them to have such a perfect baby, but there is still the
sting and pang there.
I truely believe thst love and nature finds a way, my dh and i have
decided to adopt, we ccan not stand the heartache of another
miscarridge. We are so much more realxed and happier since making the
decision, love and nature finds away!
Thake great care, you are in my thoughts
Luv Mel
At Sun, 27 Jan 2002, Dona wrote:
>
>Hi Bonnie,
>Well guess what..I just found out today that my nephews wife is NOT
>having tripplets..she is having QUADS!I just cant believe that she was
>not using fertility meds..I think she is lying..lol.She concieved her
>last child with gonal-f. Maybe she used what she had left over..who
>knows?My nephew has been really mean to her..she called crying =( I
>think he is in shock and she is extremely emotoinal from being pregnant
>with 4 babies.I my nephew had called my mom asking if she would let them
>move in with her when the babies come..my mom is 74 years old and can't
>handle raising 5 babies and thats what would happen too!They won't
>consider giving any of the babies up for adoption or elective reduction
>and I can't blame them.I wish I could have one of there's to raise,but
>it just come back to bite me in the a'' if I did because my nephew is so
>unpredictable and irresponsible.
>I'm having an extremely difficult time trying to be happy for them.
>And my nephew loves rubbing my nose in the fact that I havent been able
>to have a viable pregnancy.
>well I just needed to get this off my chest..I know some of you are
>wondering what this has to do with this forum...well many of us stuggle
>with issues of others being pregnant around us and not being able to get
>pregnant...it gets so fustrating!
>Dona
>
>>At Fri, 4 Jan 2002, Koolaide wrote:
>>Wow !! Dona that's good news I think. It always seems the ones who
>>are...ah...um...irrespnsible have the babies. Chad's cousin is 17 and
>>due any day. Just makes me upset that's all. How are you doing
>>anyway?? I saw you on yahoo last week but you were gone in a flash. Hope
>>things are going ok. Be strong, we'll have our chance at motherhood,
>>it's just not our time yet.
>> Bonnie
>>ps..maybe they should split up these triplets, one for you, one for me
>>and one for Sonnet....hmmm..just a thought !
>>
>>At Fri, 4 Jan 2002, Dona wrote:
>>>
>>>Just found out that my nephew and his wife are pregnant with triplets
>>>(sigh)they just had a baby 5 months ago.She was not on any meds at
>>>all....some people just have all the luck.She has PCOS and used clomid
>>>for her first baby.
>>>and of course my nephew is a very irresponsible and childish..I sure
>>>hope he grows up real quick to raise his children in a moral and
>>>upstanding way (heavy sigh).But I am no one to judge his behavior I
>>>guess. =(
>>>I just pray his wife is strong enough to have these babies.
>>>Dona
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