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Re: baby boom! update for Bonnie
From: Koolaide (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Sun, 27 Jan 2002 19:21:31 -0600 (CST)
Oh Dona....that is terrible news ! My jaw is on the floor...he was being
mean enough to make her cry !! What a jerk. I'm sorry to say that of
your nephew...but it's true. 4 babies at once ! Unbelieveable.
Maybe...maybe they will come to their senses further on in the pregnancy
and give them up for adoption. I hate to agree with you that it
wouldn't be the best thing for you to adopt..but you are right, it will
bite your ass one day. It's just so sad. Funny that this happened
today, Chad's cousin had her baby day before yesterday. She's 17 for
god's sake. It is just tooooo much to handle somedays.
Chad said he saw you on yahoo...sorry I missed ya. I'll be on for a
bit, if you pop back on.
Keep your chin up Dona, it will happen for us.
At Sun, 27 Jan 2002, Dona wrote:
>
>Hi Bonnie,
>Well guess what..I just found out today that my nephews wife is NOT
>having tripplets..she is having QUADS!I just cant believe that she was
>not using fertility meds..I think she is lying..lol.She concieved her
>last child with gonal-f. Maybe she used what she had left over..who
>knows?My nephew has been really mean to her..she called crying =( I
>think he is in shock and she is extremely emotoinal from being pregnant
>with 4 babies.I my nephew had called my mom asking if she would let them
>move in with her when the babies come..my mom is 74 years old and can't
>handle raising 5 babies and thats what would happen too!They won't
>consider giving any of the babies up for adoption or elective reduction
>and I can't blame them.I wish I could have one of there's to raise,but
>it just come back to bite me in the a'' if I did because my nephew is so
>unpredictable and irresponsible.
>I'm having an extremely difficult time trying to be happy for them.
>And my nephew loves rubbing my nose in the fact that I havent been able
>to have a viable pregnancy.
>well I just needed to get this off my chest..I know some of you are
>wondering what this has to do with this forum...well many of us stuggle
>with issues of others being pregnant around us and not being able to get
>pregnant...it gets so fustrating!
>Dona
>
>>At Fri, 4 Jan 2002, Koolaide wrote:
>>Wow !! Dona that's good news I think. It always seems the ones who
>>are...ah...um...irrespnsible have the babies. Chad's cousin is 17 and
>>due any day. Just makes me upset that's all. How are you doing
>>anyway?? I saw you on yahoo last week but you were gone in a flash. Hope
>>things are going ok. Be strong, we'll have our chance at motherhood,
>>it's just not our time yet.
>> Bonnie
>>ps..maybe they should split up these triplets, one for you, one for me
>>and one for Sonnet....hmmm..just a thought !
>>
>>At Fri, 4 Jan 2002, Dona wrote:
>>>
>>>Just found out that my nephew and his wife are pregnant with triplets
>>>(sigh)they just had a baby 5 months ago.She was not on any meds at
>>>all....some people just have all the luck.She has PCOS and used clomid
>>>for her first baby.
>>>and of course my nephew is a very irresponsible and childish..I sure
>>>hope he grows up real quick to raise his children in a moral and
>>>upstanding way (heavy sigh).But I am no one to judge his behavior I
>>>guess. =(
>>>I just pray his wife is strong enough to have these babies.
>>>Dona
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