PCOS Messages for January, 2002: Re: Am i being deceitful or I am wise to wait????(long but not too long)

Re: Am i being deceitful or I am wise to wait????(long but not too long)

From: Sabrina (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Wed, 9 Jan 2002 10:53:32 -0600 (CST)

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At Wed, 9 Jan 2002, anonymous wrote: >
>Hi..i really dont want to post this, but it is gnawing at me and i need
>to get it out. I met this guy (yes on the net..haha) been talking to
>him for over 6 months, and am going to meet him in 2 or so. Guess what
>my dilemna is?? You guessed it!! HAIR!!!! Arghhh! I hate it! My arms and
>legs are the worst part..not like monkey hair but noticeable none the
>less..I also have some under my chin, and I worry more about him feeling
>pricklies there than seeing it. My question is...should i tell him now
>or wait so he can see me first so he doesnt think hairy gorilla woman is
>on her way (he has seen my pics by the way...so i guess he cant think
>too bad), but then again he cant see my arm and legs (even though i
>shave my legs but i have the worst pricklies there..ugh. He is a great
>guy..i know i know..if he is so great i should be able to tell him, but
>still it makes me very nervous and stressed..i am VERY sensitive about
>it. I just dont want to get there...have a good time or whatever and
>then tell him and he think i was deceiving in anyway ( or worse have him
>not be able to handle it)...but then again i dont want to tell him
>before he has seen me in person and get really bad images in his head!
>Any advice....its eating at me really bad..:( thanks

I just found this website and I am so relieved to find that there are more women than me alone worrying about facial hair! I have to shave everyday and I CAN grow a full beard! As for your delimma, I wouldn't tell him just yet, I mean you haven't even met him yet in person and there is no need to make him aware of this right now. We all do things to make ourselves feel better about our looks, whether it is putting on a little make-up or plucking or shaving...I have had to shave since I was 17 years old and I didn't disclose it to everybody that I dated, even seriously dated. My husband knows NOW, but he also uses hair remover on his back, HEHE, how do I know this? Who do you think puts it there for him? Everybody has little things that they don't share about their grooming habits. It is harmless not to tell him right now. Just enjoy yourself and try not to think about it so much. I do think that we seem to think about it and notice it more than others anyway. I know that it is hard not to sometimes, like when you are laying in bed and your chin hair scratches against the covers, or when somebody touches your chin or squeezes your cheeks...that is when it really bothers me and I tend to duck away from people touching me a lot. But, if love is there, the hair won't matter. Besides, the hair is only half of my concern...i can get rid of it...this weight is what kills me...anybody have any suggestions?

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Sabrina, Alabama

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