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Re: Am i being deceitful or I am wise to wait????(long but not too long)
From: anonymous (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Wed, 9 Jan 2002 08:12:13 -0600 (CST)
Why is it being deceitful? For centuries women (and men too) have done
what they can to minimize flaws - it's a ritual. there is no reason you
should have to say "hey nice to meet you, oh yeah I should tell you I
have a problem with excess hair." It's not like you are neglecting to
tell him you have herpes or some other kind of communicable disease! ;-)
THAT would be irresponsible... GO, have a great time, get to know him,
let him get to know you and then if you feel like it, tell him when if
feels natural to you! Hope you have a great time!!!
At Wed, 9 Jan 2002, anonymous wrote:
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>Hi..i really dont want to post this, but it is gnawing at me and i need
>to get it out. I met this guy (yes on the net..haha) been talking to
>him for over 6 months, and am going to meet him in 2 or so. Guess what
>my dilemna is?? You guessed it!! HAIR!!!! Arghhh! I hate it! My arms and
>legs are the worst part..not like monkey hair but noticeable none the
>less..I also have some under my chin, and I worry more about him feeling
>pricklies there than seeing it. My question is...should i tell him now
>or wait so he can see me first so he doesnt think hairy gorilla woman is
>on her way (he has seen my pics by the way...so i guess he cant think
>too bad), but then again he cant see my arm and legs (even though i
>shave my legs but i have the worst pricklies there..ugh. He is a great
>guy..i know i know..if he is so great i should be able to tell him, but
>still it makes me very nervous and stressed..i am VERY sensitive about
>it. I just dont want to get there...have a good time or whatever and
>then tell him and he think i was deceiving in anyway ( or worse have him
>not be able to handle it)...but then again i dont want to tell him
>before he has seen me in person and get really bad images in his head!
>Any advice....its eating at me really bad..:( thanks
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