PCOS Messages for January, 2002: Re: Am i being deceitful or I am wise to wait????(long but not too long)

Re: Am i being deceitful or I am wise to wait????(long but not too long)

From: Sonnet (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Wed, 9 Jan 2002 02:08:31 -0600 (CST)

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You know, sometimes I swear we feel our pricklies worse than others do! Seriously, when my chin hair grows out to a two or three day length, I am thinking man, I could cut glass with those things, they HURT if I accidently scratch my shoulder or something. But my husband always says he can't feel them if we're kissing or something. Sometimes when I'm feeling obnoxious about it I will "stab" him in the arm or something with my stubble, and he still claims he can't feel it or even see it "other than one or two tiny ones." So maybe it won't be an issue!

Since you've sent him pictures it's not like either way is going to be misleading, really. I think either way, as long as you've made the decision that makes you feel the most comfortable and confident, it's okay. If you decide not to tel him, it's totally possible he won't even notice. Also totally possible that he will but not think too much of it. Or notice but not think it's the kind of thing that needed to be previously disclosed in a "buyer beware" type thing! On the other hand, it might make you feel better to tell him that you have some hair going on, and although it's probably a lot less than you think it is you get really self-conscious about it. He sounds like a nice guy, maybe being up front like that will alleviate your fears and make it into something you can battle together.

Good luck at the meeting!! Let us know how it goes!

At Wed, 9 Jan 2002, anonymous wrote: >
>Hi..i really dont want to post this, but it is gnawing at me and i need
>to get it out. I met this guy (yes on the net..haha) been talking to
>him for over 6 months, and am going to meet him in 2 or so. Guess what
>my dilemna is?? You guessed it!! HAIR!!!! Arghhh! I hate it! My arms and
>legs are the worst part..not like monkey hair but noticeable none the
>less..I also have some under my chin, and I worry more about him feeling
>pricklies there than seeing it. My question is...should i tell him now
>or wait so he can see me first so he doesnt think hairy gorilla woman is
>on her way (he has seen my pics by the way...so i guess he cant think
>too bad), but then again he cant see my arm and legs (even though i
>shave my legs but i have the worst pricklies there..ugh. He is a great
>guy..i know i know..if he is so great i should be able to tell him, but
>still it makes me very nervous and stressed..i am VERY sensitive about
>it. I just dont want to get there...have a good time or whatever and
>then tell him and he think i was deceiving in anyway ( or worse have him
>not be able to handle it)...but then again i dont want to tell him
>before he has seen me in person and get really bad images in his head!
>Any advice....its eating at me really bad..:( thanks

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Sonnet Fitzgerald, PCOS Association, Online Community Liaison. Email: sonnet@pcosupport.org

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