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Re: depressing...
From: Jesse (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Tue, 16 Oct 2001 04:56:32 -0500 (CDT)
Hey, Nikki u r great. I agree with you totally.
At Mon, 15 Oct 2001, Nikki wrote:
>
>I agree with everything been said here, he is not worth it if he is that way
>dont waste your tears and haert ache, i was also lucky and found myself a
>wonderfull man yes there are some out there that dont just look on the out
>side they prefer what is in the inside, He met me when I was anorexic
>(100lbs @ 5 foot 6) and when I had a miscarriage after mis carriage
>(x3)(after we got married)PCOS realy set in and My weight ballooned in 3
>years to 300lbs an it went up and down by 5lbs but never a large weightloss,
>no matter what I did, And Hubby never changed how he felt about me actualy I
>think out love got stronger than it has ever been. I now weigh 260lbs after
>5 months of low carbing and metformin, excersize. you see you just need to
>hang in there you will find the perfect man I never thought i would find
>Wayne but I did so you will to ,,,,,, they say there is a perfect match for
>everyone, it might take a few turns but you will find him
>
>>From: anonymous@obgyn.net (kristy)
>>Reply-To: anonymous@obgyn.net
>>To: Multiple recipients of list PCOS <anonymous@obgyn.net>
>>Subject: Re: depressing...
>>Date: Fri, 12 Oct 2001 14:45:45 -0500
>>
>>i agree with this. i have thankfully found a wonderful man who will not
>>let me cut my self or say anything bad about myself. whenever i do he
>>always says he wouldn't have married me if he didn't think i was
>>beautiful,(even though i am about 120# overweight) i think there is a
>>good man out there for everyone, it just takes time to find them but it
>>is very much worth it!! go for it girl!!!
>>
>>kristy
>>At Fri, 12 Oct 2001, anonymous wrote:
>> >
>> >Hi,
>> >I think that is the most horrible thing I have ever heard. I know that
>> >right now you probably don't want to hear what a jerk he is... but I
>> >hope that you know that a person's beauty comes from within. I am sure
>> >you are beautiful inside and out. Whenever I complain about hair, my
>> >boyfriend asks me to get out some scissors and cut the yucky hair in his
>> >ears. And when I say that I am fat, he sticks out his tummy and says
>> >that he is the fat one and that we should go for a walk to cure his fat
>> >problem (he is not fat). A relationship based on physical beauty is not
>> >one worth being in.
>> >
>> >Go out and find a new man. A smarter one who can see past some possible
>> >imperfections. Find one who hugs you and reminds you that no matter how
>> >bad it gets, he will be there for you. I am sure you can find that man.
>> >And I am sure that looking back in a few years, whether you are single
>> >or not, you will see how good it was to get rid of a man who could be so
>> >horrible to you!
>> >
>> >What a jerk!
>> >
>> >I hope that you are doing well. Don't let him keep you from smiling!! :)
>> >
>> >Helen
>> >froelich@public3.bta.net.cn
>> >
>> >Thu, 11 Oct 2001, anonymous wrote:
>> >>
>> >>Wanted to share and see if anyone has had the same problem...
>> >>
>> >>Just broke up with a man I had been dating for about a year -- I found
>> >>out he had been cheating on me, and when confronted he confessed that he
>> >>didn't find me sexually attractive anymore because of the weight and
>> >>facial hair. I feel terrible. It crushed my esteem, and makes me feel
>> >>like less of a woman. This sucks.
>>
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