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Re: depressing...
From: Nikki (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Mon, 15 Oct 2001 07:10:21 +0000
I agree with everything been said here, he is not worth it if he is that way
dont waste your tears and haert ache, i was also lucky and found myself a
wonderfull man yes there are some out there that dont just look on the out
side they prefer what is in the inside, He met me when I was anorexic
(100lbs @ 5 foot 6) and when I had a miscarriage after mis carriage
(x3)(after we got married)PCOS realy set in and My weight ballooned in 3
years to 300lbs an it went up and down by 5lbs but never a large weightloss,
no matter what I did, And Hubby never changed how he felt about me actualy I
think out love got stronger than it has ever been. I now weigh 260lbs after
5 months of low carbing and metformin, excersize. you see you just need to
hang in there you will find the perfect man I never thought i would find
Wayne but I did so you will to ,,,,,, they say there is a perfect match for
everyone, it might take a few turns but you will find him
>From: anonymous@obgyn.net (kristy)
>Reply-To: anonymous@obgyn.net
>To: Multiple recipients of list PCOS <anonymous@obgyn.net>
>Subject: Re: depressing...
>Date: Fri, 12 Oct 2001 14:45:45 -0500
>
>i agree with this. i have thankfully found a wonderful man who will not
>let me cut my self or say anything bad about myself. whenever i do he
>always says he wouldn't have married me if he didn't think i was
>beautiful,(even though i am about 120# overweight) i think there is a
>good man out there for everyone, it just takes time to find them but it
>is very much worth it!! go for it girl!!!
>
>kristy
>At Fri, 12 Oct 2001, anonymous wrote:
> >
> >Hi,
> >I think that is the most horrible thing I have ever heard. I know that
> >right now you probably don't want to hear what a jerk he is... but I
> >hope that you know that a person's beauty comes from within. I am sure
> >you are beautiful inside and out. Whenever I complain about hair, my
> >boyfriend asks me to get out some scissors and cut the yucky hair in his
> >ears. And when I say that I am fat, he sticks out his tummy and says
> >that he is the fat one and that we should go for a walk to cure his fat
> >problem (he is not fat). A relationship based on physical beauty is not
> >one worth being in.
> >
> >Go out and find a new man. A smarter one who can see past some possible
> >imperfections. Find one who hugs you and reminds you that no matter how
> >bad it gets, he will be there for you. I am sure you can find that man.
> >And I am sure that looking back in a few years, whether you are single
> >or not, you will see how good it was to get rid of a man who could be so
> >horrible to you!
> >
> >What a jerk!
> >
> >I hope that you are doing well. Don't let him keep you from smiling!! :)
> >
> >Helen
> >froelich@public3.bta.net.cn
> >
> >Thu, 11 Oct 2001, anonymous wrote:
> >>
> >>Wanted to share and see if anyone has had the same problem...
> >>
> >>Just broke up with a man I had been dating for about a year -- I found
> >>out he had been cheating on me, and when confronted he confessed that he
> >>didn't find me sexually attractive anymore because of the weight and
> >>facial hair. I feel terrible. It crushed my esteem, and makes me feel
> >>like less of a woman. This sucks.
>
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