PCOS Messages for September, 2001: Re: I'm looking for answers

Re: I'm looking for answers

From: Allison (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Wed, 26 Sep 2001 14:29:58 -0500 (CDT)

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Dana, do not let some small, narrowminded, pathetic Doctor make you question your own existance. I believe that we are all special, and that we are made in God's image. Sure, some of us have issues (I have had PCOS for about 12 years), but I believe that our characters have been built up- even more than people who live supposed "normal" lives (who determines what is normal anyways.

I know it is frustrating and we've all had the dream of children. Im going to be getting married next year and I spent much of my early dating trying to convince my future husband why he shouldnt be with me. I was so worried he would hold it against me when we tried to conceive. But you know what, he really loves me in spite of my condition and Im sure your husband loves you and no cruel words (I think, by the way that you should report this Doctor before he actually hurts someone with his callous words) can change that.

I have a great quote on my wall that says, "When people show you who they are, believe them ~ Maya Angelou". Look at the situation here... your husband has shown you that he loves you by his outrage at the doctor and by supporting you, your doctor (I hope you've stopped seeing him) has shown his disregard for life and God has shown you that you can survive and that he will not abandon you.

Good luck, and by the way, my doctor (who is great) has told me that she has had some patients with PCOS conceive without massive intervention.

My thoughts and prayers are with you.

--
Allison

At Tue, 25 Sep 2001, Dana wrote:
>
>I can relate...I'm 36 and childless. `If we had only
>been pcos informed I would have done so many things
>differen't. I am sick of the lose weight, stop
>trying...leave it in God's hands...etc. I even had a
>Dr give me pills and told me to kill myself...no child
>deserves a fat Mommy and fat people are sickening to
>him. I was so devistated...my Husband was furious. It
>was a huge setback for me. I feared Dr's for a long
>time. It's so heart breaking...I just want a child to
>love and love me back...I had a horrible childhood and
>I want to give my child the best we can...only we
>can't have that child we so desire...life is so very
>hard when you have pcos.
>Dana
>--- Shellier <anonymous@obgyn.net> wrote:
>> Every sense I was 11 I've had problems with my
>> menstrual cycle.  I've
>> been to serval doctors and they would take one look
>> at me and say "your
>> just to fat" or put me on more birth control pills.
>> Well now I'm 30 and
>> trying to have a baby, now they are saying I have
>> Pocs.  I see all of my
>> friends with there children and all I can do is pray
>> for some kind of
>> answer.  I'm so tired of hear if you lose some
>> weight you'll get
>> pregnant, or don't worry your time will come.  Is
>> there anyone who knows
>> how I feel.  Sign Fed Up With Pity
>>
>
>=====
>Dreams and mistakes are the only thing we can call our own. Correct your mistakes, never give up on your dreams. Most important...trust God... I pray for my empty arms to be filled with a bundle of joy. What a Blessing that will be.
>Glucophage 1000 mg
>Aldactone  200  mg
>Unithroid  175 mg
>prenatals

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