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Re: Moms w/pcos
From: Nikki (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Fri, 03 Aug 2001 14:17:39 +0000
I am sorry to tell you this but you can not assume to know what we who are
ttc are going through, I have been trying for 5 years and have had three
miscarriages simply because of my medical problems, You obviously do not
have fertility problems as you have 3 children, try put yourself in our
shoes, and be more sensitive to others, remember we have all heard the story
stop trying it will happen or the all too well used YOUR TIME WILL COME,,,,
well obviously your time came,,,,, We are still listening to our body clock
ticking and believe me it echos when you as a women so desparately want to
have a child and you cant no matter what you try,,,, so please think twice
before commenting on something you dont seem to have gone through, I
understand that you might have meant well but what you say does effect
others here
>From: anonymous@obgyn.net
>Reply-To: anonymous@obgyn.net
>To: Multiple recipients of list PCOS <anonymous@obgyn.net>
>Subject: Moms w/pcos
>Date: Fri, 3 Aug 2001 08:04:04 -0500
>
>i have 3 children and have had pcos since my last one which is ten yrs now.
>i was diagnosed 7-8 years ago though. before pcos though if i looked at a
>guy i got pregnant seemed like. i had my tubes tied and glad i dont have
>to
>worry about it anymore honestly. i have seen many on here struggling to
>get
>pregnant and my heart goes out to you. one thing i would like to say is
>this- a baby doesnt make you a complete person in and of itself. a friend
>of
>mine hadtried for a long time as well. when her and her husband quit
>trying
>she got pregnant almost immediately. it was the change of attitude i
>think.
>now i am a single parent and its hard. i never thought i would be living
>this kind of life but i am. its so hard that i cannot appreciate what i
>have
>some days. thats a shame. i dont feel like a good parent sometimes. but
>as
>a christian i would say count your blessings. rejoice in your sorrows as
>well. it makes the devil mad for one, but for another- there is a big
>picture we cannot see- the future. sometimes God doesnt give us what we
>want
>for our own good. i hope for each one of you that you can appreciate the
>what and whys of how things go. in the mean time i will keep each one in
>my
>prayers.
>char
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