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Re: Moms w/pcosFrom: Kelly (anonymous@obgyn.net)Fri, 3 Aug 2001 08:53:33 -0500 (CDT)
At Fri, 3 Aug 2001, anonymous@obgyn.net wrote: > >i have 3 children and have had pcos since my last one which is ten yrs now. >i was diagnosed 7-8 years ago though. before pcos though if i looked at a >guy i got pregnant seemed like. i had my tubes tied and glad i dont have to >worry about it anymore honestly. i have seen many on here struggling to get >pregnant and my heart goes out to you. one thing i would like to say is >this- a baby doesnt make you a complete person in and of itself. a friend of >mine hadtried for a long time as well. when her and her husband quit trying >she got pregnant almost immediately. it was the change of attitude i think. >now i am a single parent and its hard. i never thought i would be living >this kind of life but i am. its so hard that i cannot appreciate what i have >some days. thats a shame. i dont feel like a good parent sometimes. but as >a christian i would say count your blessings. rejoice in your sorrows as >well. it makes the devil mad for one, but for another- there is a big >picture we cannot see- the future. sometimes God doesnt give us what we want >for our own good. i hope for each one of you that you can appreciate the >what and whys of how things go. in the mean time i will keep each one in my >prayers. >char While I have no doubt your heart was in the right place when you wrote this, you have no idea what you are talking about. You obviously have no idea what the struggle with infertility is like since you have 3 kids and your tubes tied. I have been ttc now for 3 years, as well as having a miscarriage. Some women on here have been trying even longer and had several miscarriages. We're not conceiving because of our attitudes, we're not conceiving because we have a medical condition that can either prevent that from happening or just make it very difficult to conceive or maintain a pregnancy. I remember a nurse at my previous doctor telling me to "just go home, have a glass of wine, relax, stop trying so hard it'll happen." Well it's been three years, it hasn't happened yet. I guess I'm not relaxed enough. So while you meant well, please don't presume to know how anyone going through infertility feels if you've never been through it.
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