PCOS Messages for April, 2001: Re: irrational hatred of people (rant)

Re: irrational hatred of people (rant)

From: Dona (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Wed, 25 Apr 2001 10:31:38 -0500 (CDT)

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Hi Sonnet,

I know what you mean about very young mothers. My best friend had her duaghter when she was 17 and had one more year to graduate High School. Her daughter is 6 now. I have only known my friend for the past 3 years. We work together. My friend wants badly to be married and have a "Normal" family with her daughter, but for now she is still a single mom. She recently told me after my second miscarriage that "life just didnt seem fair to her.Here I am a single mom and you trying so hard to have a baby". she was crying when she said this too me.She also told me that watching me go through my struggle with infertility made her realize just how lucky she is to have her daughter.I used to resent the fact she was a young single mom up till that point. Then I realized how hard it must be for her to see me happily married with a supportive husband. She's right.."Life just isnt fair sometimes". Dona

>At Wed, 25 Apr 2001, Sonnet wrote:
>I'm so so sory for all of your sturuggles, I understand! I too have that
>- I don't even go to the mall anymore because I know I will see so many
>14, 15, 16 year old girls with their FAMILIES that they didn't want in
>the first palce and are without exception poorly cared for. (please
>don't be offended, I know, it's a generalization, but that's what I am
>seeing!) It's an awful way to feel but I DO think it's normal! We all do
>it, we can't all be freaks!
>
>Something that has helped me is remembering this: Among my friends, I am
>the only one married. Some are in relationships, many are not. And I
>see they way they look at me and my husband, and I feel how much pain
>and lonliness comes off them. And I understand in a way, not because I
>remember being single so much, as I understand how it is to want a
>family like that. It's the same thing. It helps to remember that many
>other women feel the same about those of us TTC because we have husbands
>/ boyfriends. So in a weird sort of sense, we are lucky! (Small
>comfort, I know - but it does help me!)
>
>--
>Email always welcome to: sonnet_fitz@hotmail.com
>

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