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Re: I want to cry!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! please encourage me!
From: Christina (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Fri, 13 Apr 2001 15:18:27 -0500 (CDT)
When I met my husband, he knew nothing about my condition. He didn't
even notice the hair! When I pointed it out, he was like hair? Oh yeah,
but that's nothing. He thought absolutely nothing about it. He didn't
care because he cared about me as a person. I still have a bit of
weight to lose, but he keeps on telling me how beautiful I am and that
he would hate to see me real thin. He thinks its unhealthy and to him,
a bit of extra weight makes a woman more desirable because she looks
healthy. Try not to obsess about it. I know its hard, but if this guy
really cares, it won't matter. :)
>I can't believe I am admitting this, but I meet my bf on the net and he
>is from DC, so I decided I will fly down and meet him..I had the same
>nightmares and fears you did..I finally had the courage to tell him
>before I went and he started panicking because I kept saying there
>something wrong with me and I think it will change your mind..By the end
>of the conversation he said "Thats what you were so afraid to tell me. I
>don't care about that I was worried that you were going to tell me you
>were really sick". He was the one who encouraged me to try out laser
>and go to the doctor..Funny how life works!! He taught me that I am
>beautiful inside out..Atleast in your situation you have the comforts of
>being at your own house here I was trying to figure out how to sneak
>into the bathroom early enough to do my thing..Don't worry the beautiful
>thing about chatting online is you fall for the person for the mind and
>spirit..The rest will happen just give it some time and try to find the
>confidence with yourself..Like Mel's said just be yourself cause he
>already likes you!! Good luck!! Enjoy your weekend!!
>--Vicki--
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Christina :)
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