Re: I need the help and guidence URGENTLY
From: Chris (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Sat, 24 Mar 2001 10:21:04 +1000
I can assure you it is actually quite common to have larger labia minora
than labia majora. I work as a gynaecology nurse and see this quite often.
It is probably unrelated to the sex problem. Intercourse can be painful for
many reasons. The most likelt in your case is that your wife is a little
unsure of what is happening as it is her first time and she is nervous.
Things need to be taken very slowly to allow her to feel comfortable. In
some women if they are too nervous to have sex an involuntary spasm of the
vagina occurs, called vaginismus. This will make penetration difficult if
not impossible. What she needs most from you is your love and support and
time. I wish you luck,
Emma
>----- Original Message -----
From: anonymous <anonymous@obgyn.net>
To: Multiple recipients of list PCOS <anonymous@obgyn.net>
Sent: Friday, March 23, 2001 11:55 PM
Subject: I need the help and guidence URGENTLY
> Dear Sir/Madam,
>
> I got married on Feb. 29, 2000. My wife is beautiful. On the first
> night we tried our level best for the intercourse but failed and my wife
> started crying.
> On repeated request, she allowed me to observe her vaginal part (means
> the sexual organ). I found that near the VULVA portion, THE SKINS OF
> LENGHT 2.5 INCH (approximately) are HANGING. I advised her to consult
> the GYNACOLOGIST TO GET THE PROPER ADVICE. After that also we tried for
> the INTERCOURSE but it was extremely painful. I conclude that she is
> hiding some GYNAC FACTS FROM ME.
> With this in mind I visited many web sites but found a little bit.
> On joining the YAHOO GROUP a friend of mine has given me this reference.
>
> In gynacology, I think she has LABIA MINORA is BIGGER THAN THE LABIA
> MAJORA.
> What I expect from you is that what are the causes behind such
> defect(s).
> Whether all women have this (these) types of problem(s).
> What can be done to over come this problem ....Is it the surgical
> operation
> required to remove the defect???
>
> I REALLY REQUEST YOU TO HELP ME .... and guide us properly.
> Mr. Bhavin Shah
>
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