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Re: Hideous, horrible, evil ob/gyn!
From: anonymous (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Fri, 16 Feb 2001 12:54:48 -0600 (CST)
Dear Sonnett,
i hope that all these kind messages and moral support towards you, will
allow you to gain your confidence and self-esteem back.
What you had to endure was dreadful, but from such an experience, i hope
through this, that it will make you a stronger person and that you
persue your dream to be a mother by demanding and seeking the best
treatment for you to help you with your quest. Be determined cyster and
don't let a cruel and wicked individual make you lose faith.
Unkind comments can be a knife wound in the back, but only those that
are beautiful in the inside will truly be beautiful on the outside too.
Your doctor lacks both these qualities, you have both!!!...regardless of
how you see yourself!!!
So take heart, take heed and good luck!!!!
At Thu, 15 Feb 2001, Sonnet wrote:
>
>Ok you guys I just got back from that appointment I had waited for for
>so long... you remember the one I scheduled in September (!!!) because
>I was told this woman was so great. Well she made me CRY and now I'm
>pissed about it! Not only did my pap hurt like all buggery (and I just
>went to the bathroom and noticed little chunks of flesh, no wonder it
>hurt) but she was definitely horrified that she had to be so close to a
>fat woman. She decided that it was irresponsible of me to be TTC at my
>weight, and made comments like "At your age (24), to be your weight....
>*sigh*" She stopped just short of calling me disgusting! But the final
>insult is that she is insistent that I get a gastric bypass before she
>will treat me. A gastric bypass!!! Can you believe this? I tried
>pointing out to her that yes, I am aware that I am larger than many
>women, but that issue is already being treated by a number of other
>physicians. Not a word of it went through. I'm so depressed. I have
>been feeling bad about myself anyway the past few weeks and this just
>makes me certain on some level that yes I am a hideous side show freak
>sort. I feel like crawling in a hole (it would have to be a very huge
>hole) and hiding. Someone PLEASE tell me that I don't have to have a
>gastric bypass just because I wanted to be a mommy???
>
>--
>Email always welcome to: sonnet_fitz@hotmail.com
>
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