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Re: Oh happy day
From: Dave (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Thu, 18 Jan 2001 08:37:17 -0000
Kallie,
My brothers wife is going through the same thing at the moment. She told us
late November that she was pg, but that she was bleeding, and the doctors
were monitoring her. Then in mid December she had to go for a D & C, and
they did not look after her very well in hospital. On top of that my brother
and my dad had a big bust up, so she worries about my brother, and she is
grieving for her lost child.
Stay positive Kallie, I am sure you will get pregnant again, but it may take
time, and you may need help, (Doc).
I am sure that many of us on this board have a news years resolution of
getting all the help we can to help us achieve our goals! (Whether that be
pg, slimmer, fitter!)
(Dave and I pulled the wishbone in the turkey, and I won, but he said that
he would have wished for a baby too - ahhhhh!)
Cathy
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From: "Sonnet" <anonymous@obgyn.net>
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To: "Multiple recipients of list PCOS" <anonymous@obgyn.net>
Sent: Wednesday, January 17, 2001 10:03 PM
Subject: Re: Oh happy day
> Oh honey I'm so sorry it's been rough. I'm very glad you feel
> comfortable enough here to at least come and talk about it - I think
> that always helps. Remember you've got every right to feel sad and
> angry about this - you've got to grieve still, this is not something
> that you will just get over. And I think it's perfectly normal to wish
> you'd never gotten pregnant. I mean yes, that was what you were trying
> for for so long, but it brought a lot of pain to you as well. Don't
> feel bad for thinking that! I am right there with you on all this stuff.
> And yes, hopefully this is the year when all that will change for both
> of us! I'm really sorry for all the pain you and family have gone
> through recently.
>
> Hope the doctor's visit went well, I'm sorry I wasn't around to say good
> luck beforehand!! You make them treat you!! Life will look up a bit I am
> sure when you're not hurting all the time. Take care of yourself,
> please!
>
> Love ya too :) ttys! Sonn
>
> At Mon, 15 Jan 2001, Kallie wrote:
> >
> >Actually, I forgot to mention in my email that I am seeing the Doctor
> >tomorrow morning. Trust me - I will be singing the blues in that mans
> >ear until he figures out what to do with me. We'll see what he has to
> >say about what he found in there ;-) I'll let ya know.
> >
> >Sweetie I hope this is your year to begin mommyhood too. I hadn't
> >thought to mention it but the "MC" has been on my mind a great deal
> >lately. beleive it or not it makes me angry of all things and sad at
> >the same time. I keep thinking about how we were going to tell Matt
> >over the holidays and how now there is nothing to tell. And about how
> >I'd be entering my 3rd trimester and really getting close to holding my
> >new baby boy. I know it sound horrible but sometimes I wish I had never
> >gotten pregnant. I'm almost embassased to say that so I have only told
> >dh. Matt is tyhe type of kid that I think needs a sibling too which add
> >to my pain about the whole thing. For him I wanted to give him a
> >sibling close in age so they could be best buddies.
> >
> >In his glorious inocence he has on several occasions asked if I had a
> >baby in my belly (a lady at his daycare does and since I am overweight I
> >think he might associate it) He's told people he has a brother. - Mind
> >you he knows NOTHING aboout the MC - he just turned 3 for petes sake and
> >we didn't talk about it around him. Even before we knew I was in
> >trouble we didn't talk about expecting.
> >
> >crap. I guess I could go on about this TOO long and this isn;t the
> >right forum for it anyway.
> >
> >Just really wanted to say thanks for the encouragement. I'm just
> >praying for more divine intervention.
> >
> >love ya ~K
> >
>
> --
> Email always welcome to: sonnet_fitz@hotmail.com
>
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