Re: Nuttin much
From: Sonnet (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Sat, 16 Dec 2000 15:28:40 -0600 (CST)
Hiya sweetie :) Sorry to hear it's been a rough month for you, that's no
fun!! Can you just give up on it for this month and go for the no
pressure cuddling instead, to repair things? I know that's not an easy
choice - believe me I can understand how important it is EVERY month!!!
But myabe both your hearts need the snogs. I wish you well! Things will
get better - and remember it will be totally easier on both of you once
you feel better and aren't in pain! (I am sure that frustrates him too,
not being able to help. It's a man thing I guess - they gotta fix
everything!!) Anyway.... feel better! I hope one way or the other that
this pain and awfulness just stops for you soon.
Aa for me, am gonna devote my time to PCOS research! The gal is to get
harcopiesof every single thing ever written about PCOS, I'm gonan have
my own little reference library! Maybe then can work on writing some
papers. I don't know, it's an idea! It IS sunny here... beautiful
weather in fact, wish you were here.
Take care hey? Let me know if there's anythin I can do that will help!
I'm always around.
Sonn
At Fri, 15 Dec 2000, Kallie wrote:
>
>Well dh & had the final blowup this morning after another "wasted
>evening" and we are on the upward swing. ((Conveineintly now that I am
>on day 16 - sheesh) Thanks for all the great advice about not being to
>hard on dh - I still pissy though but like I said it's taking a turn. I
>don't think I'll take a chance on rubbing his shoulders just yet though
>- Too close to the neck! :-)
>
>Hey Sonnet - Well heck - what are you going to do with yourself now???
>Do you want to take some classes or something? Or just sit around and
>enjoy the new crib? ( That's what we called our apartmet when I was your
>age :-))
>
>As far as the adhesion - it is so awful there are few people I would
>wish it on. Because the pain has begun lasting so long that is the
>worst - the way it starts to wear on you and effects everything. I have
>a much shorter fuse which isn't like me at all. My bark is louder than
>ever. That's why this month was so important. If it doesn't happen
>this month or next it's back to the surgery in Feb. Which will be at
>the same place I went to have the D & E when I lost the baby. I Hate
>thinking about retracing the steps I took that day - I know I will lose
>it. My ob said he will schedule the surgery any time, he is worried
>about the amount of pain I am in too. We both agreed Feb would be okay
>to wait that long but it is still my option if I want to have it sooner.
>I just want to wait because every surgery has the possibility of
>causeing more scaring and I'm obviously prone to it. Plus they found
>endometrosis last time - god knows what that might look like now.
>
>As far as meds I think my doctor is worried that I am a dealer. He has
>been really helpful but the fioricet w/codine stoped working & started
>giving me a "hangover" feeling. Now I'm taking percocet which does curb
>the pain but even that doesn't eliminate it completely.
>
>Being pregnant is supposed to help the adhesion pain go away because you
>tissues become very hydrated and the hormones that the pregnancy
>produces helps to soften the adhesion site - that is how it was
>explained to me.
>
>Have a good weekend guys. Hope it's sunny in Cali Sonnet..
>
>--
>Kallie
>
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