PCOS Messages for November, 2000: Re: Going bald, my boyfriend deserves better.

Re: Going bald, my boyfriend deserves better.

From: amy (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Wed, 22 Nov 2000 23:05:45 -0600 (CST)

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At Wed, 22 Nov 2000, Krista wrote: >
>Good morning -
>
>I don't know anything about how to stop the hair from thinning and
>receding ... and BELIEVE ME, I completely and totally understand the
>concern about the "cosmetic" effects of this stuff. On my end of it, I
>DO have significant hair loss, but am not *yet* balding ... more of my
>symptoms fall into the "MY GOD, I'm TURNING INTO A MAN" category. BUT,
>I will tell you that I think its YOU who deserves better in the partner
>area. You sound like a very wonderful woman ... and its not your hair
>or your child-getting ability that makes you such. You're going through
>something terribly traumatic here ... and the honest truth of the
>matter is that HE is adding to your stress ... and that's just the LAST
>thing you need. I don't know your boyfriend ... and I'm sure he's a
>horrible person or anything like that ... but if he's more concerned
>with what's OUTSIDE than what's inside, you all would be doomed in the
>long run anyhow, in my opinion. I apologize if I've overstepped my
>bounds here --- its just that I have fought the same terrible battle
>that you are fighting ... its actually a battle against yourself, if
>you didn't realize it. From the OUTSIDE, there's ALWAYS going to be
>someone who's got better hair, better eyes, better legs, a better bosom,
>etc ... it truly is only the inside that makes us unique in the LEAST.
>Find the person who sees THAT part of you, ADORES it and because of that
>would SUPPORT you through ALL of the THOUSANDS of struggles in this
>life. I wish you the very best here ... and hope that someone else on
>this site can give you the hair-loss solution that you're looking for.
>Take care and God bless ...
>
>k. gracie
>
>At Wed, 22 Nov 2000, Kate wrote:
>>
>>I've just discovered that my hair is receding and thinning out at the
>>front. Its like baby hair where its starting to go, really thin and
>>whispy. I can't stop crying about it. I don't know whats going to
>>happen next, is it going to stop at this point or am I going to go
>>totally bald? I've tried to talk to my partner about it (who is
>>completely bald) but he doesn't understand. He seems to think that its
>>just the same as a man going bald but I have to differ. I'm just about
>>to start new infertility treatment, but I don't know whether to go
>>through with it now. I feel, for my boyfriends good, I should leave
>>him. He doesn't deserve this. He deserves a proper woman. He's a
>>lovely man who is more than capable of having a family with someone
>>normal. Does anyone know of anything I can get for my hair in the UK?
>>I'm completely devastated.

I just read an article in this weeks Women's world about a woman who suffers from androgenic alopecia. Her hair is thinning, so she went and had extensions to make her haie fuller. It looks great: the only drawback is this needs to be done every 4 months. Hope this helps

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