PCOS Messages for November, 2000: Re: Going bald, my boyfriend deserves better.

Re: Going bald, my boyfriend deserves better.

From: Krista (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Wed, 22 Nov 2000 06:10:59 -0600 (CST)

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Good morning -

I don't know anything about how to stop the hair from thinning and receding ... and BELIEVE ME, I completely and totally understand the concern about the "cosmetic" effects of this stuff. On my end of it, I DO have significant hair loss, but am not *yet* balding ... more of my symptoms fall into the "MY GOD, I'm TURNING INTO A MAN" category. BUT, I will tell you that I think its YOU who deserves better in the partner area. You sound like a very wonderful woman ... and its not your hair or your child-getting ability that makes you such. You're going through something terribly traumatic here ... and the honest truth of the matter is that HE is adding to your stress ... and that's just the LAST thing you need. I don't know your boyfriend ... and I'm sure he's a horrible person or anything like that ... but if he's more concerned with what's OUTSIDE than what's inside, you all would be doomed in the long run anyhow, in my opinion. I apologize if I've overstepped my bounds here --- its just that I have fought the same terrible battle that you are fighting ... its actually a battle against yourself, if you didn't realize it. From the OUTSIDE, there's ALWAYS going to be someone who's got better hair, better eyes, better legs, a better bosom, etc ... it truly is only the inside that makes us unique in the LEAST. Find the person who sees THAT part of you, ADORES it and because of that would SUPPORT you through ALL of the THOUSANDS of struggles in this life. I wish you the very best here ... and hope that someone else on this site can give you the hair-loss solution that you're looking for. Take care and God bless ...

k. gracie

At Wed, 22 Nov 2000, Kate wrote: >
>I've just discovered that my hair is receding and thinning out at the
>front. Its like baby hair where its starting to go, really thin and
>whispy. I can't stop crying about it. I don't know whats going to
>happen next, is it going to stop at this point or am I going to go
>totally bald? I've tried to talk to my partner about it (who is
>completely bald) but he doesn't understand. He seems to think that its
>just the same as a man going bald but I have to differ. I'm just about
>to start new infertility treatment, but I don't know whether to go
>through with it now. I feel, for my boyfriends good, I should leave
>him. He doesn't deserve this. He deserves a proper woman. He's a
>lovely man who is more than capable of having a family with someone
>normal. Does anyone know of anything I can get for my hair in the UK?
>I'm completely devastated.

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