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Re: Kallie re: adhesion, work etc!
From: Kallie (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Mon, 16 Oct 2000 20:27:56 -0500 (CDT)
Sonnet - Thanks for your support - it means a lot. Gave me a fresh cry
but a good one :-) I couldn't do it this morning in my heart but luckily
I had the "excuse" of the adhesion. My Dr. couldn't see me today
because he was in surgery but I see him tomorrow about it. I'll keep
you posted in regards to that.
As for work I am unsure - I know in my heart I am strong but my head
doesn't want to face it - or maybe vice versa.
The half day might not be a bad idea.
At Mon, 16 Oct 2000, Sonnet wrote:
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>ohhhh Kallie you poor dear! Gosh if it's not one thing, it's another
>huh? I'm so so sorry! I didn't even know ovaries could DO that. There
>isn't something that can be done? Painkillers my friend, LOTS of
>painkillers (ok not TOO many!) I hope your body starts healing soon. I
>hope your heart starts healing soon!
>
>Heading back into work sounds as though it is overwhelming to you. I
>imagine that having to explain things over and over or just to face
>people who know will be sort of like having to relive everything all
>over again. You weren't supposed to have to face pity as part of a
>pregnancy! But you CAN make it through this - one more hurdle and I know
>you're up to it. As an idea, would it be more manageable to you if you
>did a half day your first day back? Then you could just keep telling
>yourself to make it through the next few hours. I imagine that the
>first day back is the hard bit, every day after that will be easier.
>
>Conversely, if you are in that much pain - in your abdomen and also
>still in your heart - it might be good for you to stay home, rest, and
>heal for a bit. Maybe you still need a few days to take care of
>yourself!
>
>Know that we love you and that you can do it! We'll help! :)
>
>Take care okay? let me know what's up. I'm always around online
>somewhere....
>
>--
>Sonnet
>
>At Sun, 15 Oct 2000, Kallie wrote:
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>>Sonnet - :-) You know - I beleive those words I said to you 100% Yet I
>>am in a total tissy today about the subject. I am supposedto return to
>>work tomorrow and I cannot face it. It is so frustrating to know the
>>words you hear and think are true - yet be so messed up by the
>>circumstances anyway - totally frustrating. - But I am not going back
>>yey - at least not tomorrow. Since I lost the baby I have had the
>>increasingly bad pain in my abdomen. I know what it is though - My
>>right ovary has attached itself to my c-section scar AGAIN. It is so
>>bloddy painful that when I sneeze I feel like I am being stabbed! (Or at
>>least how I imagine it feels to be stabbed)
>>
>>I had the ovary adhesion removed 2x before last year by laparosopy.
>>Since last September I have only had the pain for 1 to 2 days before my
>>period starts. So I knew it had reattached since the last surgery but
>>it hadn't been giving me many problems. Since a few days after the
>>miscarraige however it has gotten worse everyday! Last week the Dr. said
>>it was probably due to the tissues dehydrating so I was begining to feel
>>the "pull" again.
>>
>>I can handle this pain for 2 days a month but not for stretches - last
>>time it got so bad that every time I stood up it killed me.
>>
>>K- well now that i have whinned sufficently.. I will thank oyu for
>>letting me get that off my chest. Especially since I don't know if pcos
>>has any effect on it what so ever. it
>>is maddening though becausethey "wrapped" the ovary in stuff that
>>disolves but should give things time to heal inside so it doesn't
>>reatach but it doesn't work... HEYY
>>Can being IR cause you to be a slow healer the way diabetes
>>can?? Paula - maybe that question is for you??
>>At Sat, 14 Oct 2000, Sonnet wrote:
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>Email always welcome to: sonnet_fitz@hotmail.com
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Kallie,
~That which does not kill us, will make us stronger~
~~~ Eventually ~~~
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