Kallie re: adhesion, work etc!
From: Sonnet (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Mon, 16 Oct 2000 00:22:22 -0500 (CDT)
ohhhh Kallie you poor dear! Gosh if it's not one thing, it's another
huh? I'm so so sorry! I didn't even know ovaries could DO that. There
isn't something that can be done? Painkillers my friend, LOTS of
painkillers (ok not TOO many!) I hope your body starts healing soon. I
hope your heart starts healing soon!
Heading back into work sounds as though it is overwhelming to you. I
imagine that having to explain things over and over or just to face
people who know will be sort of like having to relive everything all
over again. You weren't supposed to have to face pity as part of a
pregnancy! But you CAN make it through this - one more hurdle and I know
you're up to it. As an idea, would it be more manageable to you if you
did a half day your first day back? Then you could just keep telling
yourself to make it through the next few hours. I imagine that the
first day back is the hard bit, every day after that will be easier.
Conversely, if you are in that much pain - in your abdomen and also
still in your heart - it might be good for you to stay home, rest, and
heal for a bit. Maybe you still need a few days to take care of
yourself!
Know that we love you and that you can do it! We'll help! :)
Take care okay? let me know what's up. I'm always around online
somewhere....
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Sonnet
At Sun, 15 Oct 2000, Kallie wrote:
>
>Sonnet - :-) You know - I beleive those words I said to you 100% Yet I
>am in a total tissy today about the subject. I am supposedto return to
>work tomorrow and I cannot face it. It is so frustrating to know the
>words you hear and think are true - yet be so messed up by the
>circumstances anyway - totally frustrating. - But I am not going back
>yey - at least not tomorrow. Since I lost the baby I have had the
>increasingly bad pain in my abdomen. I know what it is though - My
>right ovary has attached itself to my c-section scar AGAIN. It is so
>bloddy painful that when I sneeze I feel like I am being stabbed! (Or at
>least how I imagine it feels to be stabbed)
>
>I had the ovary adhesion removed 2x before last year by laparosopy.
>Since last September I have only had the pain for 1 to 2 days before my
>period starts. So I knew it had reattached since the last surgery but
>it hadn't been giving me many problems. Since a few days after the
>miscarraige however it has gotten worse everyday! Last week the Dr. said
>it was probably due to the tissues dehydrating so I was begining to feel
>the "pull" again.
>
>I can handle this pain for 2 days a month but not for stretches - last
>time it got so bad that every time I stood up it killed me.
>
>K- well now that i have whinned sufficently.. I will thank oyu for
>letting me get that off my chest. Especially since I don't know if pcos
>has any effect on it what so ever. it
>is maddening though becausethey "wrapped" the ovary in stuff that
>disolves but should give things time to heal inside so it doesn't
>reatach but it doesn't work... HEYY
>Can being IR cause you to be a slow healer the way diabetes
>can?? Paula - maybe that question is for you??
>At Sat, 14 Oct 2000, Sonnet wrote:
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