PCOS Messages for October, 2000: Re: Hair and Marriage (long)

Re: Hair and Marriage (long)

From: Michelle (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Fri, 6 Oct 2000 06:26:44 -0500 (CDT)

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I really feel for you, I was exactly the same with all my boyfriends, I always wished I could just do it when I felt like and not spend a few hours in the bathroom first! Then I met someone who told me over and over again how much they liked everything about me etc, and I gave in, they didn't seem bothered, it gave me a lot of confidence, and my next boyfriend (although I try and time it right), hasn't even mentioned it at those inbetween times, I still get in a state, and cry etc but I think we are more bothered by this disease then the men we are with, please be brave (I know how hard it is, I haven't mentioned the hair to anyone either), it will be worth it, and your husband sounds fantastic, put all your faith in him and you won't be dissappointed. Don't let this illness ruin your life. Keep in touch, stay positive and think beautiful X At Fri, 6 Oct 2000, anonymous wrote: >
>This is going to be a difficult post for me, so bear with me.
>
>Those of you who are married, how many of you have husbands who know the
>real deal about where and how much hair you have due to PCOS? Does this
>effect your sex life?
>
>I have hair around my nipples. I have never spoken that or even
>admitted it out loud until I was in a doctor's office last month while
>being seen for PCOS. Gosh, this is tough to say.
>
>I have been married for over 5 years, and my husband and I have never
>discused it. I have never let him see my breasts unless I have remove
>any hair. It seems like we have developed this way of communicating.
>For a while I thought it was just coincidence that he wanted sex when I
>had rid myself of excess hair earlier that day. Now I see that he must
>be picking up on signals. I can count only a few times when he
>suggested it and I wasn't "ready."
>
>This makes me sad, though. We don't have sex as frequently as either of
>us would like, and we cannot be spur of the moment, which is more our
>style.
>
>Am I totally silly for thinking he might not even know? Now that we talk
>about PCOS every day, I would think he is completely aware of what's
>going on. This is the hardest thing I have had to deal with in my fight
>with PCOS. My husband is sweet, unassuming, and a little bit unaware of
>things sometimes. But I wish PCOS wasn't in my bed every night changing
>the way I love my husband.
>
>Okay, that's it. I'm crying and I feel very nervous for posting this.
>But, you ladies are the only ones I can talk to about this.

--
Michelle

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