(Kallie) hey guys - Thoughts and questions (relating to miscarriage)
From: Amy (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Tue, 03 Oct 2000 08:42:11 -0400
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Bless your heart, Kallie .. I have a close friend who just miscarried for the 2nd
time, I know there is nothing that I can possibly say - I don;t know what it is
like to miscarry, but I can say that we are all your friend and are here for you
in any way we can be. XOXOX Amy
Kallie wrote:
> Wellll Things have gotten stedily worse. I thought I would just keep
> feeling better & better - be really positive and try to get past this
> and refocus on my family ((And trying again))
>
> Well I started feeling crampy again and after I had FINALLY stopped
> bleeding (sorry) I started again. This was Sat night and I have been so
> emotional since then. If the pain continues I guess I'll call my OB
> tomorrow. I saw my reg doctor today because I had to take my husband in
> (Who is near phenmonia..) He recommended I start taking 75 mg Effexor XR
> again and also gave me .25 mg Zanax for the anxeity attacks I am having
> over certain things. = Like going back to work and every one in my
> group pitying me and acting funny around me. Plus our group is pretty
> small and there is a girl who is 24 weeks along. I keep imaging myself
> looking at her belly and being overcome by my loss.
> I am not jealous about her baby mind you - I am very happy for her. BUt
> I am so sad for my family.
>
> Questions:
> Anyone out there had a D & E after miscarriage? If so what were the
> physical feelings in the days to come?
>
> Also - any one else who has had a miscarriage that can let me know if
> these emotional feelings are normal?
>
> Thanks - Kallie
>
> --
> Kallie
>
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