PCOS Messages for September, 2000: HOLLY THE VICTIM THING FOR MY LAST TIME!

HOLLY THE VICTIM THING FOR MY LAST TIME!

From: anonymous (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Mon, 25 Sep 2000 08:44:55 -0500 (CDT)

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In response to your post, Maybe you should take a look at your nasty attitude. Yesterday was the first time I ever saw this board and there was your nasty post reinforcing all the people who blamed me for being fat PCOS or not. I have lost 80lbs which you seem to have forgotten in the post. Yes you did mention the word FAT in the orginal post at least a few times. >
>OK, this is the last and final time I am going to post on this subject.
>so many lousy things have been attributed to me and so much blame has
>been laid at my feet,

Perhaps you should look why? Fat women or women struggling with their weight get enough crap dont need reinforcement that they are lazy gluttons and you did use the term LAZY ANd GLUTTON!

I felt the need to just set the record straight. >And as for "venting" and having a bad day", I would like to point out
>that the posting I replied to was written by Autum who, by her own
>admission "just felt the need to rant and rave"..

You did your own rant and rave but its funny how you want to censor others.

Interesting how >that's ok for her but not for me...

Maybe she didnt go on about what lazy gluttons overweight women are on a PCOS board, using hammers of responsiblity. Yes people do need to be responsible but you literally make every person whos had extra weight added to their body feel like crap...and what about the people who havent gotten a handle on things yet. Ive lost some weight. You come across as very mean and judgemental. I know I will be avoiding you from now on and this was my first time on the board and I got that impression immediately from you! >
>* I did not ever use the word fat - (this word was used in another
>posting made by a woman who replied to me and if you look at the
>postings, you will see they became jumbled together during replies,
>etc.)

Um yes you did...you said "I made me fat" Please stop lying. You also used the word overweight which is equivalent a few times. >
>* I said that because PCO makes losing weight difficult, I can not eat
>what my thin husband eats or I will gain weight.

Ok this applies to all of us, Doesnt upset me. >
>* I said that I eat too much food FOR ME, due to PCO and that's why I am
>heavy. When I do well with my low carb and take my Met, I lose weight.

Good for you but you also mentioned things about being lazy and being a glutton and people not taking personal responsibility. If you had said it that way to begin with then thats alright. >
>* I take responsibility for this and accept that's just the way it is.

Ok yes good for you. >
>* I said that when I see terrible disabilities, I feel grateful that I
>can have some control over my own medical issues (diet, medication)

But what about the women struggling. You come on here with this atittude and say children are starving in Africa and children are dying of cancer....you womens stop yer whining. SOME PEOPLE DONT HAVE CONTROL OVER THEIR PCOS yet...Its like you have no compassion for those who were in your old place. >
>You attributed the following statements and interpretations to me:

You said them all. I can go back and copy and paste if you think that is necessary. >
>I have read and reread my postings and for the life of me, I can't see
>where you could interpret all of that in such a nasty tone (except in
>the part which were mixed in with mine).

Ill copy and paste again if you deem it necessary. You do call yourself lazy and a glutton and say the rest of it all in different words.

Do you not realize I am also >heavy and have been my whole life? However, this being said,

Plenty of fat hating fat people. and the type that once they get a taste of success and become thin, forget all compassion towards others.

I know >myself and I know that if i did what I need to do, I can lose weight..I
>don't get how you leap into the whole brainwashed by the diet industry
>(that;s just a pathetic comment)...as for preaching, why don't you read
>you own posting for a prime example?

Oh I know IM preaching back to you. Felt like giving you a dose of YOUR OWN MEDICINE. >
>I think you are a person who has obvioujlsy had a lot of bad experiences
>and are just itching to blame someone else.

OH THAT BLAME SOMEONE ELSE STUFF! Oh I am fat and have PCOS I am not worthy I am not worthy! LOL Please I thought I said I am doing better and lost 80lbs but I never thought that gave me a reason to come on here gloat about it and go on about personal responsibilty because I remember where I was once!

YOU JUST DONT DONT GET IT. I had faced nothing but your type of preaching and blame all the years I was fat and when I started ignoring the voices like yours, I was able to feel less depressed and lose weight. I think voices like yours do damage to fat people full stop. >
>Finally, I dare you to show me where is my postings I blame anyone - I
>talk about myself and how I feel about my weight and other issues.

The whole thing has the tone of blame and if you are going to call YOURSELF lazy and a glutton because you happen to have PCOS and are fat how does this make you feel about other people who fit this description?

>
>I guess maybe it's easier to blame someone else than to take a good hard
>look at yourself. It is much easier to focus on someone else who is
>daring to say something different.

Oh daring to say something different. No more like daring to repeat the hammers that PCOS patients face daily out in the world. >
>Why don't we all do ourselves a favour and drop this now and agree to
>disagree. You are not going to convince me I have no power and control
>over myself and I am not going to convince you to look at it my way. I
>am frankly sick of this topic.

Actually I will ignore you now anyway. You are not the kind of person I wish to associate with anyhow. I wont be writing about this again.

You also dont get it...the stuff about fat. And I cant expect you to GET IT!

>
>Holli

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