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Re: Men, me, and whether i can find it in myself to love who I am!From: Anne (anonymous@obgyn.net)Tue, 29 Aug 2000 20:40:31 -0500 (CDT)
I think I understand how you feel, because I used to feel the same way. I was shy. I was lonely. And my face was covered with pimples. I had my first date at the age of 19, the second at 21. And the excess hair at that time didn't help. Now the second part of the story. I found a great guy. I wouldn't even let him glance at my body, even months after we became intimate. I would only make love in the dark, or under the sheets in the bedtime. I was wondering what he saw in me, because he's really hansome. Then he told me how nervous he was before he asked me out for the first time. He thought I was to pretty to date him! Then I thought: well, if he thinks I am pretty and good enough for him, then I probably am. It was a gradual process, but i finally gained some confidence. Spironolactone cleared my skin, and I felt great not wearing tons of powder. We got married last year, and, although I don't remove my facial hair when he's around, I feel comfortable walking around the house with some hair on my legs. I'm not saying that you need a man to make you feel good about yourself. But it helped me. Something else helped, too: Getting rid of friends that weren't supportive. Please, believe in yourself and try to appreciate your true value. I wish you all the best!
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