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Re: Hiding out

From: sassy_jones (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Mon, 7 Aug 2000 12:11:09 -0500 (CDT)


I know exactly how you feel!! I was thin high school, so now that I've gained almost 100 pounds, I'm afraid to see anyone from when I was skinny.

I'm working really hard on fat acceptance--trying to be healthy and not worrying so much about physical beauty--but when I'm in my home town I still hide if I see anyone I think I knew back then.

I've come a long way to just loving me for who I am and not dwelling on what I *ought* to be, but I couldn't bring myself to go to my ten year reunion last year.

Maybe by my 20th I'll be self confident enough to take the plunge!

At Mon, 07 Aug 2000, (no wrote: >
>I was just curious if anyone else feels like they are hiding out from
>the world, especially people from the past. Since high school I have
>doubled my weight and maybe its vanity, but when I go to my hometown I
>definitely am antisocial.
>It didn't help that someone told a family member that they saw me and
>didn't realize who I was because I had gained so much weight! Sweet,
>huh? Now I'm afraid I have passed this to my daughter, she's 11 and has
>gained sixty pounds in the past two years without changing her eating or
>exercising. I can deal with it for myself, but its breaks my heart that
>she has had to face so much teasing at school, and although I know its
>not my fault, that guilt thing does rear its ugly head...Well thanks for
>listening, or reading, guess I'll shut down my pity party.....




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