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Re: Q to those with significant others
From: Skye (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Mon, 31 Jul 2000 16:28:52 -0500 (CDT)
I just asked my S.O. about my facial hair last week. Mind that we've
been together for four years now, but he really doesn't seem to notice.
I even went to a laser place, and they told me that my hair was probably
too light to treat. Amazing how our self preception is always FAR worse
than what people actually see in us.
As for my sweetie's suppot during my recent diagnosis - he is being
wonderfully supportive. I've told him I'm going off all chemical birth
control (I don't want kids yet, but I certainly want to be able to have
them later), and he's even supportive of that.
At Mon, 31 Jul 2000, Stephanie wrote:
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>I told my boyfriend 3 weeks after we started dating. I think my facial
>hair is pretty bad. He said he noticed a bit of dark coloring on my
>chin but he didn't think anything of it. He is totally comfortable with
>my situation. He has read up on it and knows that I am not a freak and
>that there are treatments and things that you can do about it.
>
>FYI . . . My boyfriend and I are planning on moving to San Diego, CA
>and buying a house, getting married and having children!!! I am so
>excited. It is wonderful to find out that there are men out there that
>will love you no matter what is wrong with you(facial hair and all).
>
>Stephanie
>
>At Fri, 28 Jul 2000, JF wrote:
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>>I was just wondering... Those of you that are married or have
>>boyfriends, how long did you wait--and how on earth did you tell them
>>about your problem?? I couldn't imagine sitting my boyfriend down and
>>telling him "Hey, I have this problem where I have to shave my face.
>>Maybe we can shave together in the mornings!!" LOL
>>Did they freak out or act weird at first when you told them??
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