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Re: Whine teary note! I apologize now!
From: Celeste (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Fri, 31 Mar 2000 09:10:30 -0600 (CST)
At Thu, 30 Mar 2000, Sonnet wrote:
>Sonnet, I am so sorry to hear about your sad news. The loss is real to you, and that's what matters, not what anyone might choose to say or think about the circumstances. I recommend you check out http://www.inciid.org; they have some wonderful support boards there for exactly the kind of feelings you are talking about. I have "met" some wonderful ladies through it. I hope your day gets a lot better and I will be thinking of you.
>Just have to get this out of my system....
>
>Like many of you here, my huband and I have been trying to have a child
>for many months now. We've managed to get pregnant a couple of times
>(not often) over the past 2 years, always to end up with a miscarriage.
>This week I found out one of my close friends was pregnant. She is
>going through a divorce and already has a lovely daughter, and she
>didn't want to keep the child. My husband and I were in the process of
>approaching her about adoption. Today I found out she miscarried. While
>I know she didn't want the baby anyway, my heart breaks for her and for
>us! It feels like just another baby that we've 'lost.' Since she wanted
>to keep this pregnancy a secret, I am unable to talk to anyone about it
>and it makes the grief that much worse. I'm not looking for advice,
>just having a self pity and friend pity day I think - needed to talk to
>someone!! Thank heaven for the board and for all of you who are
>understanding....
>
>Thanks :) Sonnet
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Celeste
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