PCOS-MEDICATION Messages for June, 2003: Re: PCOS-MEDICATION digest 1201

Re: PCOS-MEDICATION digest 1201

From: anonymous (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Thu, 19 Jun 2003 19:56:29 -0500 (CDT)

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At Wed, 18 Jun 2003, Sue wrote: >
>Renee--
>YAHOOOOOO!!! I love reading about adoption!! We are paperchasing our
>daughter (coming from China) right now and the rest of our family will
>be built through adoption. We have one bio (miracle!!) baby boy, but
>the pgy was too hard on my body to try it again, so we're going straight
>to adoption. I always wanted to adopt a passle of kids, so that's what
>we're doing. I love the symbolism of adoption and the knowledge that
>these kids will be so much better off than what they are now.
>
>Thanks for posting!!
>
>Grace,
>Sue
>~~~~
>Wife to Mark
>Mom to Brendan (16 mos)
>Prayerfully paperchasing Amanda Joy

Please tell me I misunderstood the meaning of your last sentence.

As a birthmother (and PCOSer) for several years, I don't understand what you meant by "better off than what they are now". Do you have prior knowledge of all adoptives backgrounds?? Are you going to teach your child that they would have become nothing without you and your family?? We look at my daughter as a gift..the time we all spend with her and her family is precious. I (and most birthfamilies these days)made an informed decision for her life before she was born and even though I did it to give her a better life...who's to say she is "better off"? Who are you to say your family is better than your child's birthfamily?? I certainly hope you won't raise your adopted children with this understanding. When they come to you one day...and they will..requesting to learn of their biological background...will you tell them the truth or will you tell them you "saved them" from certain destruction thru their birthfamily?

As a PCOS sufferer, I am proud to be a part of my child's life so I can guide her thru the next several years!!

Again..please tell me I misunderstood your meaning!!!

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