PCOS-MEDICATION Messages for September, 2002: Re: Frustrated

Re: Frustrated - might be PG Advice needed

From: Shawna (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Fri, 6 Sep 2002 13:15:20 -0500 (CDT)

Messages sorted by: [ date ][ thread ][ subject ][ author ]
Next message: Janine: "ANDROCUR QUESTION! (help)"
Previous message: anonymous@obgyn.net: "Re: Thyroid & PCOS (To Sue - Sorry a bit long)"
In reply to: anonymous@obgyn.net: "Re: Frustrated - might be PG Advice needed"
Next in thread: Bronwyn: "Re: Frustrated - might be PG Advice needed"

At Wed, 4 Sep 2002, anonymous@obgyn.net wrote: >
>I've worn these shoes before. *HUG* I remember the basal body temps, the
>planning this and doing that...everything "JUST SO". I also went onto
>pergonal, the injectible fertility drug. On pergonal, the doctor monitored
>my cycle progress with blood tests and ultrasounds. I remember one cycle
>with two perfect sized "eggs". Well, I still didn't get pregnant.
>
>The female body is a remarkable thing. If everything works perfectly, it's
>great.....unfortunately, there are times everything doesn't work quite
>"right". I had cycles where I assumed I had ovulated and assumed I was
>pregnant. I also had the nausea, fatigue, etc. It's a painful thing when
>your body plays tricks on you like that. It was very disturbing to go to
>the doctor's for yet another pregnancy test only to be told "not this time"
>once again. My heart goes out to you ladies still in the infertility
>trenches. *HUG*
>
>It's possible you are not far enough along in a pregnancy that the tests
>will pick up the hormone difference. Sadly, it's also possible that your
>heart and head are convincing your body to FEEL pregnant, because you
>desire it so much.
>
>Your feelings of frustration and anxiety are very normal in these
>circumstances. Whatever your answer will prove to be in the days ahead, we
>are here for you. One thing I learned during my years of
>infertility...SURROUND YOURSELF WITH ENCOURAGERS! Infertility is one of
>the most difficult things for couples to deal with. Women seem to feel it
>more directly than men because they have been taught to be "mommies" since
>we were children.
>
>I remember the frustration of not knowing....of hoping...of praying...of
>fearing the answer, whatever it may be. Because only time will bring your
>answer, perhaps the only suggestion I'd have is for you to take the time to
>do something special for yourself. Call a friend you haven't seen in
>ages....treat yourself to a facial at a local beauty school (unless you're
>lucky enough to afford a spa!!!)...spend the day in your pajamas, watching
>old movies and reading a good book....take a day trip. Lots of people can
>tell you to "just relax".....but having a plan to occupy your thoughts and
>mind is key.
>
>I have dealt with infertility twice. The first time it was for just over a
>year. My clomid baby is now 17. The second time, it was a longer
>wait....6 1/2 years of trying, prayers, tears, and more prayer and tears.
>After 5 cycles of pergonal, I finally became pregnant. The pregnancy
>wasn't the easiest time in my life, but I can't imagine a child fitting
>into my life and heart so perfectly as my 9 year old. I'm not making any
>promises. I don't know your future. Just know that I offer you my best
>wishes....you're in my prayers.
>
>Hugs
>
>Shelley
>
>--------------------------------------------------------------------
>mail2web - Check your email from the web at
>--------------------------------------------------------------------
>--------------------------------------------------------------------
>--------------------------------------------------------------------
>http://mail2web.com/ .
>
>--
>--------------------------------------------------------------------
>
>--------------------------------------------------------------------
Shelley, >--------------------------------------------------------------------
What wonderful words! I have been diagnosed with PCOS in the past six weeks. The diagnosis came about because we were not getting pregnant and my periods had stopped for almost a year. As you put it, my heart and mind have convinced me on serveral occasions that I was pregnant, only to be crushed when I realized I was not. It seems as if I have had to "gleefully" endure the pregnancies of many of my dearest friends and even my sister-in-law this year when I really just felt like screaming and carrying on in a jealous rage. YOur words of encouragement and advice touched me deeply. Thanks for taking the time to post such a great message of hope.

--
sincerely,
S. Tobin

Next message: Janine: "ANDROCUR QUESTION! (help)"
Previous message: anonymous@obgyn.net: "Re: Thyroid & PCOS (To Sue - Sorry a bit long)"
In reply to: anonymous@obgyn.net: "Re: Frustrated - might be PG Advice needed"
Next in thread: Bronwyn: "Re: Frustrated - might be PG Advice needed"

Women's Insurance Checklist from Auto Insurance Quote

use when must restrict search to only the pcos medication forum...
Enter search keywords:
	Returns per screen: Require all keywords: