PCOS-MEDICATION Messages for February, 2001: to Holly RE "Onlies"

to Holly RE "Onlies"

From: anonymous@obgyn.net
Thu, 08 Feb 2001 7:17:11 PST

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Holly,

Well, dear Cyster, you are in my prayers! I think you're right about your husband changing his mind once the little one comes along. Actually, I'm divorced. It's been almost 4 years now. My ex remarried in August of 2000. He announced last week that he's "going to be a daddy again". It hit me like a ton of bricks, but wasn't unexpected. (I still don't have anyone special in my life, though I have dated off and on.) His new wifey has never been married before or had children, she's 43. Her biological clock was definitely ticking. She was fortunate to not have the struggles we have with PCOS. In some ways, it makes me feel kinda sick that I had to work so hard to get my kids AND put up with an emotionally abusive husband for so many years. Anyway.....my ex and I had to spend the entire day together waiting for our son while he had oral surgery last March. During that time, my ex said he didn't know if they'd have any kids....that he felt content with the two he has and since he was getting older (ripe old age of 44 now...hehehe), he didn't think he'd really want any more. Well....he denied having said anything of the sort when I mentioned it to him after his "announcement". Go figure.

My heart and prayers are with you. If I can encourage you in any way, please feel free to contact me. Lord knows I have leaned on MANY during my years of infertility AND my divorce. Life is rough enough without having to deal with the added stress of PCOS and infertility......friends, however, can at least make that burden more bearable.

Loving hugs,

Shelley spryte@dnsonline.net

> Well, you hit the nail on the head there, Shelley! My husband is an only
> child and he's never been around babies, or kids really. His mother was
> an only child too so he thinks that's the way to go. I have a sneaking
> suspicion that once we have the first one, he'll like it and want to
> have another. That's another reason we're trying this now. I told him
> that if we have trouble conceiving and it takes years, it may be too
> late to have a second one if he changes his mind.
>
> Holly

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