PCOS-MEDICATION Messages for August, 2000: Re: I have to make a choice

Re: I have to make a choice

From: Monica (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Fri, 25 Aug 2000 13:59:02 -0500 (CDT)

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Dear Laura,

I agree with Laura. I married at 25. Make sure your boyfriend is ready, too, you don't want to go through everything "alone" emotionally and babies sure do put a strain on even the closest of couples. I've had 3, and each one, although a joyous blessed event/addition to our lives, adds stress along with it. If it's not a now or never situation, my strong advice is to wait until you are both ready. You are not selfish for wanting a baby. It's one of life's most noblest and holiest professions. But frankly it would be selfish to "push" parenthood on someone who isn't emotionally ready for it. I'm sorry if I've stepped on your toes. I wish you the best. God Bless :)Monica

At Fri, 25 Aug 2000, Sue wrote: >
>>>...I just don't want to miss this chance....<<
>
>Laura--
>
>It doesn't seem like you're looking at this right--pg with PCO is not
>'now or never' situation, esp. if you get appropriate treatment. I can
>completely appreciate your desire to have a baby (my drive to do so is
>strong after 5 years of marriage), but you could have one later. It's
>hard to delay gratification (we've just had to delay our plans again for
>another 6 mos or more) and wait it out, but if you're able now, you'll
>likely be able to later, esp. with good medical care. If you'll pardon
>my blunt observations, it also doesn't sound like your boyfriend is
>ready to have a baby. In my humble opinion, it's a much more exciting
>prospect (to be pg) when both partners are ready and looking forward to
>the tot's arrival. Of course, my opinion and $1.50 will buy you a cup
>of coffee......

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