Re: Arrogance and Sensitivity (was Sterile too young)

From: Robert J. Woolley (wooll005@tc.umn.edu)
Wed Apr 19 06:47:25 2000


In message <200004190338.WAA06949@forum.obgyn.net> writes: > In case you haven't noticed - although we do have this big brain and
> under ideal circumstances of upbringing etc we CAN rationally bypass
> much emotional based thinking, the reality of being human is our frailty
> both as individuals and as nations to make "bad" choices and get into
> "bad" situations.

So, you're agreeing that this woman made bad choices and got herself into bad situations? If so, then I don't see where you're disagreeing with me, since that's my point.

>
> LOGICALLY - yes abusive situations follow certain patterns that
> could/should be indentifiable and the victim-to-be should/could remove
> her/himself.

Glad you agree.

>
> The REALITY - however - is that those insidious patterns of aberrant (if
> you will...) human behavior get into vicious circles

Yes. It's usually sort of a folie a deux, with psychopathology in both parties that causes them to choose to continue in this pattern.

and SHIT happens > and as physicians / medical care givers - we need to be able to observe
> and assist the victim in breaking the pattern. Because if we don't we
> are allowing our patient to be in harm's way, among other issues.

I don't disagree with this.

>
> This is not a question of what appears to be total logic (don't marry
> that person, get ou, don't have sex, get a termination or give the baby
> away) - it is a question of mucked up human psychology

So you agree that this woman has (or at least had) "mucked up psychology." So again, I ask, wherein do you disagree with me? That's what I have been saying.

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