Re: After the diatribe...was look at the big picture/sympathy
From: Braun, R. Daniel (rbraun@iupui.edu)
Tue Apr 18 22:49:05 2000
In this case, I think many of us learned from it. Maybe not about physical
things but perhaps about the emotional aspects of our patients and of
ourselves(I hope).
Dan
-----Original Message-----
From: Jim Connerth
To: Multiple recipients of list OB-GYN-L
Sent: 4/18/00 9:26 PM
Subject: Re: After the diatribe...was look at the big picture/sympathy
Thank you Kevin--very well stated!!
"Kevin D. Dew MD" wrote:
> I, for one, have had my fill of the responses and arguments with
Theresa G.
> Her recent post verbally abusing a member of the list is not
acceptable.
> As a professional, I make my request for the list-owner to look into
some
> method of ensuring that only MDs are allowed on the list. I don't
know how
> one would go about this but OB-GYN-L is NOT the forum for patients to
> discuss their care/malpractice issues or whatever.
>
> Kevin Dew, MD Board Cert. Ob/Gyn
>
> -----Original Message-----
> From: ob-gyn-l@obgyn.net [mailto:ob-gyn-l@obgyn.net]On Behalf Of
Teresa
> G
> Sent: Tuesday, April 18, 2000 7:04 PM
> To: Multiple recipients of list OB-GYN-L
> Subject: Re: Step back and look at the big picture...sympathy
>
> >
> >You said that your doctor shouldn't have performed the operation
which
> >you requested him to do. When I challenged that, you laid out your
sob
> >story about how you were too young, blah, blah, blah.
>
> *** Resend that to me ... where I blamed the doctor ... it would
have
> been nice if he and I had talked without the ex in the room (but what
> could that have changed -- you love to hear this, so soak this up -->
I
> HAD NO CHOICE!, perhaps if there had been some type of counselling
done
> at the ob/gyns on what this is going to do ... to be so young, and to
> know, I won't have any more children and go through post-partum and
have
> HIM for a husband ...
> >
> >You don't apologize to your children for giving them an abusive
father and
> an immature mother, rather than a normal, happy, healthy family in
which to
> enjoy their childhood? Perhaps you should.
>
> *** You love the word NORMAL -- define NORMAL ...
>
> Perhaps you should apolgize for being such a cruel wormey little
doctor
> . high on your power ... you are a pathetic example of how a
> physician treats a patient ... you make me very very sick ... and
you
> remind me of my ex so much ... the careful mean mean wording, written
> just so ... to make me feel stupid and dirty. How many people have
> yelled at you today for your power trip ...
>
> I could bet you are an abusive partner as well ... and as they say,
I'm
> sure your wife never gets her cookies :) It's all about you isn't it.
> You don't have to say it, but I'm sure she has left your @$$.
>
> Shame on you, shame on you, shame on you.
>
> How many people do you crush each day just to get to the top of your
> hill.
>
> How about telling me BETTER LATE THAN NEVER ... I got us out of it as
> soon as I could ... and I actually did put them in the car and drive
us
> across the state ... and they were very little, and I was very scared
> . and I did it.
>
> And I forced him through the courts to take parenting classes and he
> spent 18 days in inpatient care detoxing ...
>
> Isn't it time for you to go pick on someone else now ...
>
> Hugs and Kisses,
>
> Teresa
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