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Can I change my sexual response pattern?

From: Michaela (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Wed, 30 Sep 1998 18:51:16 -0500 (CDT)


I've discovered that I'm one of those women whose sexual response cycle has one sharp orgasmic peak and then immediate resolution--that is, after one, I'm done. Sounds odd coming from a woman, but after orgasm I usually just feel like going to sleep. It's been this way since I first discovered orgasms way back when.

I would very much like to change this. I'm lucky to have a partner with a similar response pattern--after one go-round, he's very content to just cuddle or fall asleep too--but it takes him longer to get there than it takes me, and I think he feels like I'm just waiting for him to finish rather than enjoying myself further. Yes, we've talked about it--but I'd like to do something about it rather than just accept it.

Is there a way I can somehow change my response cycle? I've tried holding off orgasm, etc. but I'd rather be able to enjoy myself *after* one since the simultaneous orgasm is a rare beast.

I suppose changing one's natural "programming" is a long shot, but if anyone has any advice...

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Thanks,
Michaela



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