WOMENS-HEALTH Messages for September, 1998: Re: sexless...

Re: sexless...

From: M (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Tue, 1 Sep 1998 21:27:01 -0500 (CDT)

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Hello Friend!

Heather, I wasn't trying to get your knickers in a twist. How could you expect a specific answer when the questions you were asking were just so vague? How would anyone know by your post why you don't care if you ever have sex with your husband again? I truly am NOT trying to be flip! Obviously, you do have a problem and my heart goes out to you. It must be very frustrating not to want to have relations w/your spouse. But, only you, your husband and probably a good couples counselor can sort this one out.

I'm assuming (please correct me if I'm wrong) you think I was being critical by my asking why you think you are acting like you are 50. The only reason I added that was my 90 year old grandmother recently told me, *no matter what anyone says it's your sex drive that's the last to go.* So, my point was just because you don't want to have sex, does not mean you're acting old. Best wishes and if any of this offends you please let me know! You've got my e-mail address :o)!

At Tue, 1 Sep 1998, Heather wrote: >
>At Sun, 30 Aug 1998, M wrote:
>>
>>Why don't you want to have anything to do with your husband? Not wanting
>>to look at other men while you are married is a good thing. Why do you
>>think you are acting as if you are 50? I'm sure most 50 year old women
>>still enjoy sex!
>>
>> Sun, 30 Aug 1998, Heather wrote:
>>>
>>>I have been married for almost three years now, have one child. I no
>>>longer want anything to do with sex or my husband; I don't even look at
>>>other men! I have been diagnosed with vulvar vastitis, but feel that it
>>>no longer bothers me. I don't know what's wrong. I'm only 22 years old
>>>and act as if I'm 50! Please help!
>
>M,
>The reason I wrote was to try and get some help, not criticism. This is
>really a problem for me and my husband. Looking at other men (if you're
>a woman), or looking at women (if a man) that are attractive is supposed
>to be totally natural for humans. Yet, this is not so for me. I could
>care less is I ever had sex again with my husband. I don't want to be
>with anyone else.
>So if you hve anything helpful to say, please write back, otherwise...

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