WOMENS-HEALTH Messages for September, 1998: Re: sexless...

Re: sexless...

From: Barbara (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Tue, 1 Sep 1998 21:07:37 -0500 (CDT)

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Dear Heather,

I understand your wanting good honest information about your wories about not wanting sex with your husband. This is a very important and beautiful part of a marrige and when it is missing for whatever reason it is painful for both partners.

Heather aare you a stay at home Mom or do you have a job that you go to along with being a wife and Mom? This is a very exhausting life if this is what you do and being exhausted makes it difficult for us to feel romantic, we are just pooped!

Have you spoken with your husband about being tired, (if this is the case)? Perhaps he could help you out with some of the chores like grocery shopping, cooking or some other things that you have to do at the end of the day.

I was a stay at home Mom with 4 children and I was pooped most of the time and went through periods when all I wanted to do when I hit the mattress was Go To Sleep!

If this is not the cause of your lack of sexual feelings why not speak with your physician and see about going to see someone that deals with sexual dysfunction. It's Not Uncommon.....You are not alone in these feelings. You just feel alone. I should not take but a few visits to help you and yuour husband gain a renewed feeling of pleasure in your life together.

I hope the best for you, Barbara

>> Sun, 30 Aug 1998, Heather wrote:
>>>
>>>I have been married for almost three years now, have one child. I no
>>>longer want anything to do with sex or my husband; I don't even look at
>>>other men! I have been diagnosed with vulvar vastitis, but feel that it
>>>no longer bothers me. I don't know what's wrong. I'm only 22 years old
>>>and act as if I'm 50! Please help!
>
>M,
>The reason I wrote was to try and get some help, not criticism. This is
>really a problem for me and my husband. Looking at other men (if you're
>a woman), or looking at women (if a man) that are attractive is supposed
>to be totally natural for humans. Yet, this is not so for me. I could
>care less is I ever had sex again with my husband. I don't want to be
>with anyone else.
>So if you hve anything helpful to say, please write back, otherwise...

--
Barbara Nesbitt
Editor, OBGYN.net

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