WOMENS-HEALTH Messages for May, 1997: Re: My hymen never ruptured!

Re: My hymen never ruptured!

From: Joel (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Fri, 02 May 1997 11:56:35 +0200

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anonymous@obgyn.net wrote: >
> Nine years ago, I had intercourse for the first time. I didn't bleed
> that time, it barely hurt, and I have never bled since. My first
> partner claimed I was lying when I told him I had been a virgin.
> A couple of months later, I went to an OB-GYN, who told me that my hymen
> was indeed intact; she didn't believe me- apparently- when I told her
> that I had had intercourse several times already. I figured maybe the
> guy was a bit small so that's why my hymen didn't rupture.
> Well, after that, I had intercourse with 2 other guys- the second has
> been my husband for several years. So I have had intercourse countless
> times in the meantime.
> What is weird (I think?) is that penetration is STILL always difficult
> at first- I can feel a thick "ring" preventing my husband from
> penetrating at first- once we get past that ring, everything slides
> fine. But it's almost like being a virgin every time we have sex,
> because his penis never just "slides right in" (and it's not because his
> penis is too large- he's probably right around average)
> I haven't been back to an OB-GYN since then because it was such a
> negative experience.
> Our sex life is great- but I guess I'm just wondering what's wrong with
> me? Am I technically STILL a virgin, after all these years? Is
> penetration always supposed to be this difficult at first? Why did my
> hymen never rupture?
> Please help!

Some hymens are known to never rupt, because of to large tonicity or elasticity.

In case or elasticity, no problem. But if high tonicity (as you seem to have), you may have a little plastic surgery on it, as you seem to have pain in the beginning of penetration.

And about the virginity, you are no more, excecpt if you only want to speak of the hymen..

-- Joel Kompanietz, M.D. CNGOF, OBGYN.net International Representative, France Mazamet, France

*Note: Opinions expressed here are for educational purpose only. This information is not intended to supplant the need for you to consult with your physician prior to choosing therapeutic options.

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