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Re: CANNOTHAVESEX: I have no hymen. And I still can't have sex. :( Help...From: dr.narayan patel (anonymous@obgyn.net)Mon, 22 Jun 2009 11:23:06 -0500 (CDT)
At Sat, 20 Jun 2009, Sexless wrote: > >Okay ladies. Here's my story. > >Firstly, I'm 19, and I've had a fair amount of boys in my life since the >age of 14. > >But I'm a virgin. I'm not abstinent, or waiting to fall in love, or >anything like that. I'm just plain frustrated now. I just can't seem >to have sex at all. > >Okay. This all started when I was about 13. I started my period, but >did not bleed. Why? My hymen was too thick. Diagnosed a few months >later, and my doctor performed a hymenectomy on me. Recovery was >inconvenient, but swift. So, I'm hymenless. After recovery, I could >NOT insert a tampon during periods. It just did not work. ing ouch. > >Less than a year later, I got my first boyfriend. On our one year >anniversary, we tried having vaginal intercourse. Obviously, it didn't >work. It was profoundly painful. > >Now, I can tolerate pain at LEAST as well as the average girl, and if >attempting penetration hurt this much for everybody... we'd ALL be >virgins, I assure you. > >A handful of years and boys later, here I am, in the exact same >position. EVERY time I attempt to penetrate myself with either a finger >or a penis or what have you, it just doesn't work. Things can go in >(EXTREMELY uncomfortably) for about one inch, and then it's like they >just hit a wall--not that I would let them go in anyway, this pain is a >blinding, suffocating, overwhelming pain. A mixture of unbearable >pressure and a ripping, tearing... just... ouch. Seriously. > >Also, every time I push a LITTLE harder than usual, I tend to bleed. >It's definitely blood, but it isn't menstrual blood or anything, it's a >little more brown than that. But it certainly IS blood. > >So, I looked up vaginismus. This is a condition in which the pelvic >muscles contract involuntarily in anticipation of intercourse. Treatment >involves exercises... yadda yadda yadda.. I tried it. Long story >short, it just doesn't seem to help. > >I need help. Does anyone have any ideas? This is really taking a toll >on me. Quite depressing, to say the least. > >PS: I am taking birth control pills for painful period reasons. > >Thank you. Hi, Hymenectomy is usually done by cross like incision and edges are trimed or evered and sutured to have big opening.With intact hymen menstual blood is colletes in vagine.You did not have that problem. Ask your doctor to examin you after locally application of local anesthetic agent to find out wheather you have vagina or not. When we find One type of congetital anomaly, one has to rull out other congetital anomalies also. Dr.narayan Patel M.D. D.G.O. FICS Ahmedabad-380014 INDIA Note: Opinions expressed here are for educational purposes only and, as such, do not constitute a physician-patient relationship. This information is not intended to supplant the need for you to consult with your physician prior to choosing therapeutic options and/or interventions. ** Private emails cannot be entertained due to time constraints;
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