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Re: Decreased Libido in Myself is Ruining My RelationshipFor more information on symptoms and treatment of endometriosis visit www.EndometriosisZONE.org. From: kim (anonymous@obgyn.net)Fri, 12 Sep 2003 20:57:34 -0500 (CDT)
At Thu, 11 Sep 2003, Meg wrote: > >I am a 16 year old girl and I've been dating my boyfriend for over 2 and >a hlf years. For the first 1 and a half or so of our relationship, the >sex was great and VER frequent and passionate, but in the past year or >so, I have lost all of my libido. I have been on the pill since we >first started dating and had no problems in the beginging, so I don't >think that that is the problem. (I'm now on the patch.) I'm also >bisexual, but I've had urges or desires for sex with any men or women. I >am still attracted to many women and some men including my boyfriend, >but i just don't get horny (to put it in simple terms.) It is ruining my >reltionship with my boyfriend because our sexlife used to be so >passionate and loving and now i feel very frigid and cold because i just >don't want to make love or have sex. We've tried to spice things up and >we've tried a couple other things, but nothing seems to help...I'm 16, >and shouldn't be having libido problems already, should I? please reply >and tell me anything you can think of that might be wrong. Thanks a >bunch My dearest Meg, the problem you are experiencing is that you started having sex way too young. Before you get angry, let me explain. How many years do you think you will have sex? I am 47, and the sex now with my husband is much more passionate and fulfilling than when we first married. We intend on having sex until we die, that could be well into our 80's because we are in good physical health. Dump the boyfriend, get off the birth control pills, start concentrating on your health, so you can have a long life and have sex till you are old. Now is the time to think about school, prepare for college. I guarantee there will be a great partner for you when you graduate from college. There was for me, we've been together 25 yrs. Have a great life, it's worth thinking about yourself and change things now.
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