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From: Alexis (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Sat, 28 Jul 2001 03:34:00 -0500 (CDT)


For a period of five years starting at age 5 and ending at age 10, i was forced by intimidation, and manipulation to engage in sexual activities (including intercourse) by my stepbrother who is five years older then I am. i finally got the courage at age ten to tell my mom (however I only told her that there was no actual penetration involved, hoping to cushion the blow), and after that i never saw him again. Now i am 17 and wonder if i might have simply made things worse for him because since then my family has disowned him. I didn’t want to never see him again; all I wanted was for the situation to be brought under control. i feel that for a child his age to do something like that, must have been a result of some sort of abuse inflicted on him as well, because as far as i know 10 year old boys don’t generally desire to have sex with their five year old little sisters. I never stopped loving him as my brother, and i have forgiven him for what he did, and now i am concerned that he may never have received any help, i fear that everyone just tried to forget about it. i cant talk to my family about it, otherwise i would have simply done that already. And I now just learned that he has a wife and child now, and i not only worry for his sake, but also for theirs. i guess what im getting at is, i want to know if anyone has any suggestions on what i should do, if anything, and how i could do it without upsetting my family, without even knowing where he lives, or how to contact him.

Thanks, Alexis




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