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Re: 33 yo VIrgin and First Gyn Exam

From: anonymous@obgyn.net
Wed, 5 Jul 2000 00:03:11 EDT


In a message dated 7/4/2000 10:29:30 PM Central Daylight Time, baby_girl_254@hotmail.com writes:

<< Hello ~

I have searched the archives and visited the Gyn101 site, both of which have been very helpful and reassuring - as reassuring as possible. I am probably the oldest living American virgin whose name is not preceded by 'Sister'. I am 33, yes, a virgin, and I have never been able to fully insert a tampon, though I've tried. I know I'm long overdue for a gyn exam. I am certain the exam, especially the speculum part, will be painful for me, considering nothing has ever been 'there'.

Is there something I can do to prepare for this, maybe make it a bit easier? Maybe something to 'stretch' things a little?

Also, and this is equally embarrassing, I read at Gyn101 that my doctor will probably do a rectal exam - yikes. Should I use an enema or suppository to clean out before the examination?

Thank you.

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Alexa- I know how you feel about the "rectal" part, that was no fun at all but its over with quickly and only takes a few seconds. Going to the gyn isn't too bad, just make sure that you tell them that you are a virgin and I think that they can use a certain speculum to not hurt as much. I hope that this helps!! Good luck! Stacey






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