PREGNANCY-BIRTH Messages for September, 1998: Re: help me get pregant

Re: help me get pregant

From: Stacey

anonymous@obgyn.net

Mon, 28 Sep 1998 14:14:39 -0500 (CDT)

hi I am in need of having a baby with my husband but there is one problem, my husband is in prison. I was wondering if you could tell me how long sperm lasts outside of the body after an ejaculation? Is it long enough time to get the sperm to a specialist to have it inserted? Aprox. how much does this procedure cost? Is there any chance that a turkey baster works? I can have children but the only problem is it was too late to try because my husband is in prison for 6 more years he has already served 4 please help me with anything.

thanx Stacey, MI >At Fri, 25 Sep 1998, steph wrote:
>>
>>Brenda,
>>
>>I am so sorry that you are going through such a rough time trying to
>>have a baby. I am not a doctor, but a few thoughts did come to mind as
>>I was reading your post. First, it sounds like you have had a lot of
>>testing done. Has your husband had a sperm count done? If he is even a
>>little low I've read that having sex every other day may actually be
>>better than every day so he has more time to build up the sperm after
>>each "occasion". Another suggestion I have is to read Toni Weschler's
>>book, "Taking Charge of Your Fertility". She explains very clearly how
>>to assess 3 signs of fertility and how to use them to get pregnant (or
>>not get pregnant). I had had a miscarriage and was having a hard time
>>getting pregnant afterwards. I read her book and started doing BBTs and
>>CF observations and got pregnant that first month after reading the
>>book. I've read stories on the inyternet about the same thing happening
>>to many other women. It may be worth a try. Brenda, I really do hope
>>that you get pregnant and have the baby you want so bad. I'll be
>>thinking of you.
>>
>>At Thu, 24 Sep 1998, brenda wrote:
>>>
>>>I'm 36 years old. My husband and I have been trying for two years and 2
>>>months to have a baby. My husband is 42 years old. I have been threw
>>>surgery to determine if their was blockage (nothing),and test after
>>>test. In January of 1998 I was pregant for about 4 weeks. I found out
>>>on Monday I was pregant by Friday I lossed the baby. The doctor tells
>>>me that I'm trying to hard. I have no idea what that means. My husband
>>>and I have made a decission, that if I'm not pregant by December that we
>>>stop. It's not what i want to do it's what i have to do. Every cycle I
>>>wait for the 10 day to do the ovulation kit, that day comes I test no
>>>matter what. By the 14th day I have ovulated sometime during that 5
>>>days. I make my husband have sex with me everyday, even when he is
>>>tired. I check by breast about 100 times a day. I pray (PLEASE, THIS
>>>TIME) by the 28th or 31st day of my cycle, I have bleeding. I cry and
>>>i'm angry and i hate everyone who says YOUR TRYING TO HARD!!!! until the
>>>10th day when I test and the process goes on and on for 2 years. I need
>>>help. Please let me know where I can get help to have a baby. I've got
>>>to give up someday and just adopt, but it's hard because i have never
>>>given up on anything in my life. But how long can i play with my and my
>>>husband emotions. Everyone keeps asking me are you pregant? or Is their
>>>any news you want to tell us? and so on and so on.... I HATE IT!!!!!
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>hello my names is Stacey and I have a problem my husband is doing time in prison and has been in there for 4 years now, we are in need of having a baby but can't. I was wondering how long does sperm last outside the body after ejaculation? If it lasts will it be ok until I can collect a sample and bring it into the doctors laboratory? and does a use of a turkey baster work? I need some help he is in prison and I am out here helpless and need to find a solution that will give us a baby......thanx for listening and hope you have some answers for me
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