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Re: Weekend thoughts From: Jamie (ajfields@pine-net.com) Sun Mar 5 20:06:30 2006 Messages sorted by: [ date ][ thread ][ subject ][ author ] Next message: R. Daniel Braun: "Re: Which forceps do you choose/ ventouse" Previous message: Jamie: "Re: Weekend thoughts" In reply to: Efrain Ramirez: "Re: Weekend thoughts" Next in thread: Efrain Ramirez: "Re: Weekend thoughts" Reply: Efrain Ramirez: "Re: Weekend thoughts" Is this different if turned around-say a resident or nurse addresses an older patient as "tu"? It always feels very disrespectful to me to hear that. I don't generally hear it in reverse, except from age mates with whom I have established some sort of rapport. First names don't bother me, and it can be unsafe in some areas to allow patients to know one's last name. I would not address a patient by first name on first entering the room, however. -- Jamie At Sun, 5 Mar 2006, Efrain Ramirez wrote: > >In the Spanish language there are also formal and informal addresses - I >am 60 - I have patients in their 20’s and they address to me as "tu" >instead of the formal "usted" … I don't perceive that as unprofessional >as long as I feel esteem and appreciation – besides I do not force that >type of a relationship - it comes natural or it does not...most are not >my friends but many do care for me... > >I also have long-term relationships – going back some 30 years – >delivering babies whose mothers I delivered many years ago – first name >basis is common in those circumstances – > >Yes – they all can sue me so….? > >Ef > > At Sun, 05 Mar 2006, Dr Eberhard Lisse wrote: >> >>In the German language there are formal and informal addresses, and it >>is a tendency among midwives to invade the patients' privacy by forcing >>the informal address on the patients. >> >>They are not your friends, they are patients (some of you call them >>clients even). Don't forget they may sue you. >> >>And, by the way, hierarchies, you can not tell me that your SHOs call >>your Consultants anything but "Yes, Sir" or "Mr Soandso". >> >>el >> >>on 3/5/06 1:38 AM GA12L@aol.com said the following: >>> In a message dated 04/03/2006 23:03:23 GMT Standard Time, el@lisse.NA >>> writes: >>> >>> Trust me it is totally unprofessional! >>> >>> Then we'll just have to disagree. I prefer my way and you prefer yours >>> although I can't see why first name terms is unprofessional. >>> >>> Gail >>> >-- >“ The greatest obstacle to knowledge is not ignorance, >it is the illusion of knowledge.” Daniel J. Boorstin - Historian > -- JFields, RN, BSN Next message: R. Daniel Braun: "Re: Which forceps do you choose/ ventouse" Previous message: Jamie: "Re: Weekend thoughts" In reply to: Efrain Ramirez: "Re: Weekend thoughts" Next in thread: Efrain Ramirez: "Re: Weekend thoughts" Reply: Efrain Ramirez: "Re: Weekend thoughts"

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