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Re: Bonding From: Joanne Bulley, MD (islesannie@yahoo.com) Thu May 5 23:14:30 2005 Messages sorted by: [ date ][ thread ][ subject ][ author ] Next message: Joanne Bulley, MD: "San Fran" Previous message: Joanne Bulley, MD: "Re: Breast cancer and Atrophic Vaginitis" In reply to: R. Daniel Braun: "Re: Bonding" Next in thread: Efrain Ramirez: "Re: Bonding" Whoa, folks. There are cultural differences too - and she may not have any depressive tendencies - and may well have rested up - allowed other folks to give her a break and then nursed and done all the things we all think of as motherly. Sometimes the mome who have had a bunch of kids appreciate the break - and don't judege everything by what has become the USA expectation or norm. Joanne At Thu, 5 May 2005, R. Daniel Braun wrote: > >Ye, EL, the point is not that we want the Mother to do anything except >raise her kid well. The point is that if what she wants is what you >described here, that is very abnormal(Not politically incorrect) and >may well be a sign of problems to come. > >Dan > >On 5/5/05, Anna Meenan, MD <annam@uic.edu> wrote: >> No, I didn't miss your point, el. I am well aware of how some folks >> feel about the political correctness of bonding (and I'm not going to >> debate that here), and ordinarily I want for the mother what she wants >> for herself, but when what the mother wants is to barely look at her >> baby and then order it away, i worry. A lot. The fact that she's >> bringing up 3 others that look just like it is irrelevant, unless all >> three are stable, productive adults. If they are still small children, >> I'm still worried. >> >> Anna Meenan, MD >> >> At Thu, 05 May 2005, Dr Eberhard W Lisse wrote: >> > >> >Dan, Anna, >> > >> >Actually both of you totally miss the point. Or rather make the point. >> > >> >This is Politically Correct rubbish, actually. It doesn't matter what we >> >want the mother to want, but what the mother wants. >> > >> >And, I am not concerned at all, she brought three up that look just like >> >this one, and she'll bring this one up too :-)-O And she had her Tubular >> >Ligation this morning as planned. >> > >> >greetings, el >> > >> >-- >> >Dr. Eberhard W. Lisse \ / Managing Member, NA-NiC (cc) >> >dns-admin@na-nic.com.NA /* | Telephone: +264 81 124 6733 (cell) >> >PO Box 1342 \ / Please do NOT send e-mail to el@lisse.NA >> >Swakopmund Namibia ;____/ if it is in ANY way DNS/NA-NiC related >> > -- Joanne Bulley, MD Keene, NH, USA Next message: Joanne Bulley, MD: "San Fran" Previous message: Joanne Bulley, MD: "Re: Breast cancer and Atrophic Vaginitis" In reply to: R. Daniel Braun: "Re: Bonding" Next in thread: Efrain Ramirez: "Re: Bonding"

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