Re: how much more?-Janet
From: Michele (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Mon Nov 15 19:35:03 1999
Dear Janet
Don't worry about it girl. I've been there. The ER's, and all that fun
stuff. I do agree with what she said about the meds, but you are right,
it's all in the way you say it.
I hope you find the help you need soon. Did you say that you have been to a
pain clinic before? They may be able to help you get the correct meds that
you need without damaging your liver. I know Jan B goes to a good one here
in Mich.
Take care.
Michele
>From: Janet <anonymous@obgyn.net>
>Reply-To: anonymous@obgyn.net
>To: Multiple recipients of list ENDO <anonymous@obgyn.net>
>Subject: Re: how much more?-Janet
>Date: Sun, 14 Nov 1999 23:12:12 -0600
>
>I understood what Mitzi was saying and I said I was sorry that I took
>her post wrong. I didn't not accuse her of criticizing me. I said I
>took her post wrong and I was sorry. Janet B. wrote me and said
>almost the same thing but in a nice, understanding way. It is all in
>the way you say things, as to how it is taken. Its just like her first
>post when she came back. If you ask for advice and she took her time to
>tell you her "opinion" If you didn't take it than don't bother her. We
>are not all going to agree with everything that is said. Just like with
>these post. I may take something one way and others may take it
>another. And that is OK. Please don't let something like this pull us
>all apart. We have all had days where we don't deal with this illness
>well at all and get depressed. That doesn't mean that we are crazy and
>need help. We need someone to hear us and not judge us. We all get to
>the end of our rope some days.
>We all give advice. If I tell you something and you don't think it is
>right for your body than that is you. What works for you, doesn't
>always work for me. I would hope just because you didn't agree with me,
>I wouldn't think of it as a waste of my time. If that was the case I
>shouldn't be here.
>Look I didn't want to cause a problem here. It is just I have been in
>this shape for 6 months. Hardly being able to get out of bed. I have
>beat down the doors of the ER and you can't make them understand. I
>know I have been taking a lot of med.s but I can not get relief. That
>is the doctor's fault for not understanding what this illness does to us
>mentally and health wise.
>Lisa and Monica I don't want this to come between all of us. I love and
>care about everyone. I am not trying to kiss butt, this form has been a
>wonderful place for all of us. We have always supported each other. It
>doesn't mean we will always agree. This whole thing has went way to
>far. I am sorry for that. It is just how one person takes something
>one way and others might take it another. Plus being very tired and in a
>lot of pain makes you bitchy and your feelings get hurt a lot easier.
>Who hasn't had those days.
>Once again I am sorry all for plling you into this. If anyone gets
>blaimed for this it should be me. If I didn't agree with her I should
>have sent it just to her. Belle I am sorry you are getting pulled into
>this in a bad way.
>Hugs to all,
>Janet, Ga
>
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