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Re: thanks for the response(Leah)
From: Jenn (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Mon Nov 15 18:17:26 1999
Hey guys guess what?! the other night my sister Karen came for a visit for
my dad's birthday and I was asking her if she might like to go with me to
the endo march. I asked her if she might want to go and talk about it to her
husband Bill. Well he was here too and Karen asked right then and he teased
and said he would love a weekend off :O) LOL So she might come with me. We
have gotten very close since I was in college and she was in HS and then
last year she moved out so we valued our time together and now she is
married (and 21). It is so funny b/c when we go out shopping (Bill says we
are very dangerous together :O) we always go out to eat and we order
exactly the same thing except she gets a diet coke with lemon and i get a
regular coke! We can be in different rooms or whatever and we get the same
manicures even. I have no idea why I am telling you all this but anyway I
hope she does go with me. She hates hospitals and drs but she did get over
her fear for me when she came to visit me at the hospital those times i was
admitted or had surgery. That meant a lot to me b/c she was truly afraid to
even go visit anyone (even if they werent' sick and had a baby or something
wonderful like that). So she knows all that i have been through even though
we didn't talk alot about it b/c i knew it bothered her. I just really hope
that she will take a weekend or whatever and go with me. Just had to share
:O) no idea why :O)
Jenn
At 08:57 PM 11/13/99 -0600, you wrote:
>I believe the march is on 3/25/2000. Belle or Stacy F. are the best people
>to confirm this date. Will be sooo good to meet you. Take care,
>Leah S.
>Boulder Creek, CA
>bobsmountain@compaq.net
>
>-----Original Message-----
>From: Michele <anonymous@obgyn.net>
>To: Multiple recipients of list ENDO <anonymous@obgyn.net>
>Date: Saturday, November 13, 1999 4:27 AM
>Subject: Re: thanks for the response(Leah)
>
>>
>>Leah,
>>Thank you for saying that, I don't know if my husband would agree with you
>>that I'm so sweet, though LOL! I hope you and your husband are doing well.
>>I want to meet you both someday. I wish I knew exactly what date the march
>>is, so I could start making plans now!
>>
>>Love to you,
>>Michele from MI
>>
>>>From: "Robert" <anonymous@obgyn.net>
>>>Reply-To: anonymous@obgyn.net
>>>To: Multiple recipients of list ENDO <anonymous@obgyn.net>
>>>Subject: Re: thanks for the response
>>>Date: Tue, 9 Nov 1999 22:26:45 -0600
>>>
>>>Michele:
>>>You are such a sweet person. I'm sorry that insensitive words have to
>hurt
>>>sooo much. Thanks for all your loving concern that you show to each of us
>>>here at the forum. Take care--love to you,
>>>Leah S.
>>>Boulder Creek, CA
>>>bobsmountain@compaq.net
>>>
>>>-----Original Message-----
>>>From: Michele <anonymous@obgyn.net>
>>>To: Multiple recipients of list ENDO <anonymous@obgyn.net>
>>>Date: Tuesday, November 09, 1999 7:43 PM
>>>Subject: Re: thanks for the response
>>>
>>> >Dear Kimberly and Denise,
>>> >
>>> >I have been dealing with the infertility issue since I have been married
>>>for
>>> >3 years now. I know what you mean about breaking down and having a good
>>> >cry, especially when the commercials are on or when someone asks me when
>>>I
>>> >am going to have one. This year 4 out of 8 of my coworkers are
>>>expecting,
>>> >just gave birth, or had grandbabies. I have a baby shower to attend
>this
>>> >weekend. I have managed to put sort of a mental block on it though,
>it's
>>> >almost like I try to block it out of my mind completely, because if I
>>>think
>>> >about it and really deal with it, I might lose it. I work in a retail
>>>store
>>> >and my coworker and I were looking at some Christmas decorations. I
>came
>>> >across this really cute Christmas gift bag with a sleeping baby design
>on
>>> >it. I told her "you should get this for your new grandbaby" She said
>"i
>>> >don't have to I have the real thing" That one little statement hurt my
>>> >feelings and I don't think anyone realizes just what they are saying and
>>>how
>>> >it might make us feel. I think I am rambling now! Reading your posts
>>>got
>>> >me thinking again, I guess. Kimberly, I hope they find that your endo
>is
>>> >not severe. My super endo doc LOL says that if all the endo is
>>>effectively
>>> >removed that there is a good chance of being able to conceive. I will
>>>pray
>>> >that a miracle will happen for all of us.
>>> >
>>> >Take care,
>>> >Michele from MI
>>> >> >>
>>> >> >> Denise,
>>> >> >>
>>> >> >> When my niece was born, I thought that I was going to
>breakdown.
>>> >>She
>>> >> >> was
>>> >> >> the cutest baby I ever saw. I spent as much time with her as her
>mom
>>> >>did,
>>> >> >> When they moved away a few months ago, and i no longer had her
>>>around,
>>> >>It
>>> >> >> felt as if my own child was taken from me. It hurt so bad to see
>her
>>> >>go.
>>> >> >> In a
>>> >> >> lot of ways she helped me, Before she was born, I would have
>nothing
>>>to
>>> >>do
>>> >> >>
>>> >> >> with kidds, she changed my life. But now, I can't imagine my life
>>> >>without
>>> >> >> her
>>> >> >> in it. She always made me feel like a kidd again. The hardest thing
>>>is
>>> >> >> seeing
>>> >> >> all the baby stuff on tv as well. It just makes you think about
>what
>>>it
>>> >>is
>>> >> >>
>>> >> >> you are missing out on. That can really get you down, on top of all
>>>the
>>> >> >> pain
>>> >> >> you are going through to begin with. It is so hard to not breakdown
>>>and
>>> >> >> cry
>>> >> >> every where. I think I need to let go of this tough girl act, and
>>>just
>>> >> >> cry. I
>>> >> >> just hate how it makes ya feel when your done. I hope that everyone
>>>is
>>> >> >> feeling good today. I am, which seems to be a blessing for me. I
>>>have
>>> >>no
>>> >> >> idea
>>> >> >> how bad my endo is. I should find out in a couple of weeks. I'll be
>>> >> >> thinking
>>> >> >> of you all.
>>> >> >> love much,
>>> >> >> kimberly
>>> >> >>
>>> >> >
>>> >>
>>> >
>>>
>>
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