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Re: Very Upset, JessicaFrom: Jessica (anonymous@obgyn.net)Tue Nov 30 21:09:49 1999
Jenn, Thanks for your advise. It's hard for me to distance myself from all that my parents have put me through, but I think they are really scared and don't know what to do. I'm their only child and I know that they hate to see me go through all this. I will keep that in mind and not completely shut them out. As for me I really need rest but I don't think I could bear to take the semester off because this is what keeps me sane and alive. I go to an all music school and a lot of times music is the only thing that keeps me going. I am taking less credits next semester though so I should be less stressed. Thanks for your advise Love, Jessica At Mon, 29 Nov 1999, Jenn wrote: > >Hey Jessica......I hope you get some answers real fast from the drs! >Problems with the blood is not a light issue and I can understand how you >must be feeling. i have never been through it so I can't say that I know >what you are dealing with....As a former college student I think you should >take a semester off and maybe go back next fall....that would give you the >whole spring semester and the summer to try to get back on your feet. Plus >the normal stresses of classes and all that students have to deal with is >bad enough not to mention all that you are going through physically and >emotionally and all that is happening with your family life. I have very >supportive family and friends so again I do not know first hand what you are >dealing with. I don't know but perhaps they honestly do not know what to do >for you as their daughter. At one point I thought my mother didn't want to >hear about it ever again and that she just didn't care....but I was wrong. >There came a point though where every dr had done everything they could >imagine and nothing worked and my mom saw me suffer daily without any pain >free moments....and that went on for about 6 years I think.....So parents >get frustrated too because they see their child hurting so bad and from what >people have told me that bond a parent has with their child makes them want >to find any way possible to rid them of the pain and suffering....I know >that I have heard that a parent would rather take the pain on themselves >then to see their child (no matter how old they are) in such severe pain >etc. I hope I haven't over stepped my boundaries... i just thought maybe >(and that is a just MAYBE) they are acting like this because they just dont' >know what to do....perhaps deep down they really do care and want to >help....I would just say to try to keep the communication lines open....they >may need you too even more than usual and it would be awful for the bridge >to be broken......just my 2 cents i guess. > >hang in there and we are all here for you anytime you need someone! > >Jenn > >At 04:46 PM 11/29/99 -0600, you wrote: >>Jess, >> Hi. Are ya doing any better? I hope so, and i hope your parents mind >>their own business and learn to give a little support. Whats that flushing >>of the liver and stuff? And how can the doc see that your blood is'nt any >>good? Do you have any other diseases? Whats going on? How do you do that >>flushing of the toxins? Maybe you should take the next semester off? Just >>until you get your health back to "normal"..? Are you living by yourself? I >>cannot remember. But i do remember your parents being jerks.. If you need a >>shoulder, i'm here. I'm a good listener and talker... Jan >>-----Original Message----- >>From: Jessica <anonymous@obgyn.net> >>To: Multiple recipients of list ENDO <anonymous@obgyn.net> >>Date: Monday, November 29, 1999 12:11 AM >>Subject: Very Upset >> >>>Hi everyone, >>>Sorry I haven't been on in a while, things have been really crazy and my >>>health has been really bad. I still haven't recovered from surgery >>>which was oct. 20. I am very depressed and upset. I am at the point >>>where I'm desensitized to everything. I just go through the motions >>>each day. My stiches popped open twice and have gotten infected. I am >>>now trying to sleep but that never happens. I was in my specialist's >>>office every day for a week and I spent all of Thanksgiving break in >>>doctors' offices. My natural doctor took a blood picture and said that >>>I do not have one healthy, clean red blood cell in my body. My blood >>>cells are malformed, brown,black, and clumped together. I have excess >>>yeast in my blood and the antibodies are not fighting off infection. >>>Basically my immune system is shutting down. He had me go for 3 days of >>>5hr Hydrogen peroxide and vitamin IV's and wants me do a coffee enema >>>and liver flush which is just really not pleasant. He did a full >>>hormone blood work up and thyroid profile. My psychiatrist upped my >>>zoloft again to 150mg and gave me trazodone 50mg for sleep. I am >>>constantly bleeding on the Depo provera and I have excesssive hot >>>flashes. My doctor suggested that we could try clonodine, but she >>>doesn't want to switch my meds around too much. Does anyone know >>>anything about clonodine. My parents have been nasty to me and I need >>>to just not talk to them anymore. College is so stressful and I can't >>>deal with anything anymore. I don't know what to do anymore. I keep >>>having recurrent UTI's and I don't know why. I will see my dr. in a >>>few days again. Thanks for listening and I will try to get on line as >>>frequently as possible. I will keep you posted, >>>Love Jessica >>> >>>-- >>>Jessica, musicaljb@hotmail.com >>>
-- Jessica, musicaljb@hotmail.com
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