Re: Please, Please HELP!!!
From: sindhu (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Thu Jun 3 12:30:46 1999
Jennifer
I ma so sorry for your loss. When you loose some body very close
unexpectedly, then this will happen. This happens to me too when I lost
my mum after 30 days I cam to U.S. I was so devastated like you. I was
alone that time. Time will pass and you will get adjusted. Don't feel
guilty at all, you did everything you could to help her
For me also the same problem with tubes like you. Before my
surgery(laparatomy) doctor told me that my right tube is blocked and he
was not sure abou mu left one. He asked told me to go thru laparatomy
because for tube repair that is better than laprascopy. After my
surgery he was telling me that he cannot remove blcok on my right tube
because it is blocked near the uterus and it is un repairable it seems.
But they repaired my left one. For left I have around 60% to get
pregnant and for right i have around 10%. He was telling me that I can
get pregnant or not.
So consult with a good doctor, find all options. Getting pregnant is
like gambling if you have amy problems with reproductive organs. There
were other endo sisters who were successful
Feel free to email me at amy time
Sindhu.gangadharan@mci.com
Thanks
Sindhu
--- Jennifer Anna Patricia McLachlan <anonymous@obgyn.net> wrote:
> To all Endo sufferers,
>
> I really need some help right now. I haven't asked
> for a while but right now I am at a point where I
> feel I really need it. I have Endo, I am 24 and have
> had two laparoscopies, however, the problem
> persists. I have not had my period for almost seven
> months. I am not pregnant. My right rube is blocked
> and my left one is partially blocked. I went to see
> my Dr. and he ran ultrasounds and other tests,
> however, everything comes back normal. I have an
> appt. with a fertility specialist at the end of the
> month but I am wondering if anyone knows what could
> be happening to me right now.
> Also, I have more things on my mind that don't
> necessarily relate but maybe some words of wisdom
> can help. My fiancees mother, who I was very close
> with, killed herself a week ago today. She suffered
> with alcoholism for may years and had a husband, who
> happens to own the small business I work for and he
> spends most of his time in the Dominican with his
> girlfriend. I would always help her with her
> problems but last Wednesday she called me for help
> and I didn't have an answer, I told her I couldn't
> help her and that she could talk to her son, she
> didn't want to do that. I had to put her on hold
> because I was at work and had another call and she
> said she would wait. I was gone for less than thirty
> seconds and when I went back to her call, she was
> gone. I didn't tell my fiancee what happened because
> she swore me to secrecy. But on Thursday morning I
> decided it was the best thing to tell him so he
> could help her. He is the most amazing person, he
> saw her every day and called her al!
> l the time. He, as the youngest son, did for hos mom
> what a husband should. I told him what had happened
> and said he had to go to her house and make she
> everything was O.K. Well, he went there and found
> his mother dead at the kitchen table. She left
> behind two sons, a husband and an 84 year old
> mother. When I got to the house and walked into the
> kitchen, because I didn't know where they had found
> her, I saw her. I just can't believe they hadn't
> covered her or anything and I don't know how to get
> that picture our of my head. I just recently bought
> my own home and live two hours away from work and
> everyone I know. Now when I go home all I can see is
> the beautiful things and cards she had given me, the
> pictures of us together on the fridge. I was never
> close to my own mom so she was like that to me. I
> can't sleep at night and have to leave all the
> lights on. I's so hard right now because I know my
> health is not good and now this. I haven't been able
> to eat for one week now and my!
> Dr. prescribed me tranquilizers to calm my nerves.
> If anyone could help me with any of this I would
> very much appreciate it.
> Thank you ever so...
> Jennifer
>
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