ENDO Messages for April, 1999: Re: Scared!!

Re: Scared!!

From: Joy (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Thu Apr 29 14:21:36 1999

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Hi Lasinda, I just wanted to say that if you do not feel comfortable with a male GYN, then DO NOT GO to him. Perhaps he is a good Dr, but if you have issues from your past, it may not be a good idea! I have had a male, then a female who was really a man (not really, but she's pretty insensitive =)], and now I have a wonderful female Doctor. I love her and fully trust her. I have had things in my past, too, and I have a hard time trusting men as well. Also, my husband doesn't like the idea of me seeing a man. I had even thought about having a midwife when I do have a child because it was so hard to find a Dr that i could trust. But now I've reconsidered. Keep looking, if you're not comfortable with a man.

Lots of love and luck, Joy in CA

lasinda wrote:

> One of the things i'm scared about is having a male obgyn i'm really
> trying to talk myself into going an seeing him because my aunt really
> likes him an so does my mom! He is very good at what he does from what
> they say i will soon find out on my own. I'm really scared to have a
> man to look at me had alot of things happen to me in the past an i don't
> want anyone but my husband looking at me if u know what i mean how can i
> over come this? I want to because i know if my mom an aunt really likes
> him i'm sure i will but that's really not my problem just the thought of
> another man u know what i mean!! I'm i being childess?
>

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