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Re: PAINFUL INTERCOURSE-Suzy
From: al (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Tue Apr 27 19:05:40 1999
Hi Jen
You're not butting in, Jen. I hadn't heard of the pumpkin pie spice,
that's actually very interesting - That's my husband's favorite pie, he
would happily forego the meal and just eat pie, and, usually we end of
fooling around after. That's why I buy him pumpkin pie once in a while,
but he thinks I just get it cause I love him! hehehe :)
Amy
Jennifer Setser wrote:
>
> At Mon, 26 Apr 1999, al wrote:
> Sorry to butt in here but I just had to mention that I heard of that
> research with smells too. And while I can't remember what turned us
> women on for the men it was spiced pumpkin pie.:) Guess the old saying
> is right. The way to a man's heart is through his stomach, hehehee:)
> Jen S.
>
> >Oh Suzy!!! Personally, I'm not in the least offended and think I just
> >might have to try it out, sounds like it'd be fun, and I know he'd like
> >the warm towels. I've used vanilla massage oil on my hubby, not in
> >quite this way, but just as effectively. The vanilla smell, btw, is
> >supposed to result in greater arousal and satisfaction for both parties.
> >I don't say this to offend anyone, but the whole sex/how to make the
> >most of the limited sex due to endo, is the hot topic, and just wanted
> >to share that little tidbit. There's actually been research to document
> >the greater, ummmm, male response to the scent.....
> >hope somebody finds this useful, and hope you all have a good night
> >Amy
> >
> >Sue Rose wrote:
> >>
> >> Umm, well, that was SUPPOSED to be a private post to Carolyn, so I hope that
> >> no one found that vulgar or obscene. It is merely a stress reliever for
> >> your man if he is having a hard time dealing with the situation!
> >>
> >> Sorry if I offended anyone!
> >>
> >> Suzy
> >> -----Original Message-----
> >> From: Sue <suzy@strato.net>
> >> To: Multiple recipients of list ENDO <endo@talk.obgyn.net>
> >> Date: Monday, April 26, 1999 4:52 PM
> >> Subject: Re: PAINFUL INTERCOURSE-Suzy
> >>
> >> >Carolyn,
> >> >
> >> >Here you go! I really only have one...but I think it's pretty good!
> >> >
> >> >Basically, I have a male email friend that told me a couple of things that
> >> I
> >> >could do to make Andy feel more comfortable with our situation.
> >> >First, you'll want to get some good vitamin E oil and warm it up. Not hot,
> >> >just warm. Have him take a shower and while he is in the shower, put
> >> >incense, and candles in the room. Play some soft romantic music. Heat up
> >> >some towels in the microwave and put them in a cooler to keep them warm.
> >> >When he gets out of the shower, lie him down on the bed and gently rub his
> >> >body from the toes up. Make sure that when you reach that "region" that
> >> you
> >> >skip it and only massage around it. He should be ready (if you know what
> >> I
> >> >mean) by the time you reach his shoulders.
> >> >You can give him oral sex if you like or you can massage the part of him
> >> >that you missed. This should give him extreme pleasure and make him very
> >> >happy. When he is ready to cum, let him come where he may (on himself) and
> >> >then wipe him gently with the warm towels. If you like you can prepare
> >> like
> >> >a picnic meal to eat in the room afterwards. I haven't tried this yet. I
> >> >am waiting for a good time.
> >> >I hope that this helps...
> >> >Suzy
> >> >-----Original Message-----
> >> >From: carolyn <cmdean@gte.net>
> >> >To: Multiple recipients of list ENDO <endo@talk.obgyn.net>
> >> >Date: Monday, April 26, 1999 4:29 PM
> >> >Subject: Re: PAINFUL INTERCOURSE-Suzy
> >> >
> >> >>I read your post to Rachelle and I hope that you don't mind me butting in.
> >> >>I would be very interested in your advice. My husband and I are about to
> >> >>celebrate our first anniversary. We have a wonderful marriage and he is
> >> >>truely my best friend. But sometimes we go weeks without having any
> >> >>. I am sure you can imagine how that can feel to newly weds. Anyway, if
> >> >>you don't mind I would appreciate any advice you have. Feel free to email
> >> >>me privately cmdean@gte.net. Thank you.
> >> >>Carolyn
> >> >>-----Original Message-----
> >> >>From: Sue <suzy@strato.net>
> >> >>To: Multiple recipients of list ENDO <endo@talk.obgyn.net>
> >> >>Date: Monday, April 26, 1999 2:41 PM
> >> >>Subject: RE: PAINFUL INTERCOURSE
> >> >>
> >> >>>Rachelle,
> >> >>>
> >> >>>Friends have been telling me some other things that we can do to make our
> >> >>>man feel loved and still wanted....email me privately and I can give you
> >> >>>the advice that they gave me. suzy@strato.net
> >> >>>
> >> >>>Suzy
> >> >>>
> >> >>>On Monday, April 26, 1999 3:29 PM, Parks, Rachelle
> >> >>>[SMTP:anonymous@obgyn.net wrote:
> >> >>>> Hi Sue-
> >> >>>> I need some help here too! Let me know what you come up with. I dont
> >> >>>know
> >> >>>> if explaining to him how we feel will help much,because I know my
> >> >>>boyfriend
> >> >>>> doesnt want to hear it. I guess there are other things you can do for
> >> >him
> >> >>>> other than intercourse, i dont know about you, but I dont feel like
> >> >doing
> >> >>>> that either. I have no interest in sex, and I love him to death- What
> >> >to
> >> >>>> do?????
> >> >>>> Thanks
> >> >>>> rachelle
> >> >>>>
> >> >>>> > ----------
> >> >>>> > From: Sue Rose[SMTP:suzy@strato.net]
> >> >>>> > Reply To: endo@obgyn.net
> >> >>>> > Sent: Monday, April 26, 1999 3:17 PM
> >> >>>> > To: Multiple recipients of list ENDO
> >> >>>> > Subject: RE: PAINFUL INTERCOURSE
> >> >>>> >
> >> >>>> > Oh yeah! I know about this one too!
> >> >>>> >
> >> >>>> > My fiance and I had a VERY ACTIVE sex life for the first 3 years of
> >> >our
> >> >>>> > relationship...it was great! But now, he wants it alot more and I
> >> >want
> >> >>>it
> >> >>>> >
> >> >>>> > alot less and it is causing friction in our otherwise wonderful
> >> >>>> > relationship. What I would like to know is what did anyone else do
> >> >>>about
> >> >>>> > this? Please don't tell me that he is being selfish for getting
> >> >>>> > frustrated
> >> >>>> > with me. I know that...we argue about that all the time now! (LOL)
> >> >>> It's
> >> >>>> >
> >> >>>> > good that I can laugh about it, but only a couple of days ago I was
> >> >>>crying
> >> >>>> >
> >> >>>> > about it....
> >> >>>> > What can I tell him that would make him less frustrated? I need
> >> >>>help....
> >> >>>> >
> >> >>>> > Suzy
> >> >>>> >
> >> >>>> > On Monday, April 26, 1999 11:37 AM, Parks, Rachelle
> >> >>>> > [SMTP:anonymous@obgyn.net wrote:
> >> >>>> > > Hello All-
> >> >>>> > > I have a personal questions. Since my endo symptoms started and
> >> the
> >> >>>> > > medications I have been on I dont have that sexual urge anymore, my
> >> >>>> > libido
> >> >>>> > > is very low, does any one else have this problem and how do you
> >> deal
> >> >>>> > with
> >> >>>> > > it. My boyfriend has been very understanding but is also getting
> >> >>>very
> >> >>>> > > frustrated. HELP!!!!
> >> >>>> > >
> >> >>>> > > > ----------
> >> >>>> > > > From: Daniel Vogel[SMTP:homespun@louisa.net]
> >> >>>> > > > Reply To: endo@obgyn.net
> >> >>>> > > > Sent: Friday, April 23, 1999 10:18 AM
> >> >>>> > > > To: Multiple recipients of list ENDO
> >> >>>> > > > Subject: Re: PAINFUL INTERCOURSE
> >> >>>> > > >
> >> >>>> > > > Arlene;
> >> >>>> > > > I too have painful interourse. So "ways" are more comfortable
> >> than
> >> >>>> > others!
> >> >>>> > > > My Dr. said that it just depends where the endo. is at, and the
> >> >>>nerves
> >> >>>> > > > that
> >> >>>> > > > it is near. Thank-Goodness that my husband is cooperative!! They
> >> >>>are
> >> >>>> > may
> >> >>>> > > > ways to be intimate, but the main thing is that you are
> >> >>>comfortable.If
> >> >>>> > > > something hurts, work with your partner,dont give up!!Best of
> >> >Luck!
> >> >>>> > > >
> >> >>>> > > > Chelsea
> >> >>>> > > > homespun@louisa.net
> >> >>>> > > > -----Original Message-----
> >> >>>> > > > From: arlenne.mawdsley@wg.dwts.co.uk <arlenne.mawdsley@wg.dwts.c
> >> >>>o.uk>
> >> >>>> > > > To: Multiple recipients of list ENDO <endo@talk.obgyn.net>
> >> >>>> > > > Date: Friday, April 23, 1999 9:21 AM
> >> >>>> > > > Subject: PAINFUL INTERCOURSE
> >> >>>> > > >
> >> >>>> > > > > Does anyone experience painful intercourse, this was one of the
> >> >>>> > reasons
> >> >>>> > > > >I realised that I had something wrong with me, after having a
> >> lap
> >> >>>> > last
> >> >>>> > > > >year I had pressumed that this would ease but it hasn't much,
> >> >some
> >> >>>> > times
> >> >>>> > > > >as better that other.
> >> >>>> > > > >
> >> >>>> > > > >Arlenne.
> >> >>>> > > > >
> >> >>>> > > >
> >> >>>> > >
> >> >>>> > /endo
> >> >>>> >
> >> >>>>
> >> >>>
> >> >>
> >> >
> >>
>
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